I'm pretty sure he was just pulling that out of his ass.
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Originally posted by anileveI don't follow. First you say that it's your opinion only and now you make generalizations. When you say that "all women" have that feeling, you are somehow separating them from men and indirectly implying that men don't desire the same feeling. So let me get this straight, men don't have the desire to be nurtured and feel the warmth of a woman. Or to feel the power of her "femininity" by being able to confide in her and reveal his inner fears in hopes that she will tenderly comfort him and offer a solution? Or perhaps really listen to him more then his buddies without forming any judgments? Why do you view things in such a two dimensional way?
Originally posted by anileveOk, let me introduce a scenario to you. A virgin young and gentle "Jeyran" (what an idiotic comparison it is by the way) decides to devote herself to a powerful and dominant man by marrying him. She sacrifices her career and her "independence" (her friends, her personal interests, her personal life, and her financial freedom), in order to raise her family, considering the fact that she is a woman and must fulfill her purpose of a naturally assigned female role. Meanwhile her husband handles the necessities of life, including a very crucial survival factor - financial support. Children are born and everything is nice and dandy for 10 years, all of a sudden her husband calls her from Paris and says that he found someone else and he is not coming back.
She has no job, 2 kids who are not old enough. She has no financial support, has been out of the workforce 10 years already. She has no friends, no outside life, no "Masculine power" to guide her. In other words "She is screwed".
Originally posted by anileveNow tell me this, if she was your daughter would you really advise her to give up herself and her independence to invest into an uncertain future? To completely give up her individuality to another human being who might betray her in the future? Because remember the only guaranteed thing in life is death, everything else changes continuously.
To sacrifice yourself entirely for someone else means to disable yourself, no one should ever be subjected to that!
Hence, why mothers are associated with nurturing, creating, sustaining, and providing that "motherly warmth". To me and this is my personal opinion based on whatever marginal experience I've had on earth, the essence of masculinity is power. Thats what women look for in a man and respond to and similarly men look for vulnerability in women, dependence, submission, to protect or shape them. This is why for me any man that is ruled by his wife to me is no man. He is akin to being a little boy with his mommy. When the woman accepts the mans leadership it makes him feel more like a man, as opposed to constantly competing with him or trying to control him. So a woman does shape a man. She entrusts herself and submits to him and in turn he makes her happy, loves, and consults her. How else? I'm sorry if my views are "two dimensional" and/or backward but that is the way it goes, I cannot change it. To change that, would mean to change my dynamic and have a woman control and shape me. I cannot do that. Cheers.Achkerov kute.
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Originally posted by AnonymouseThe same situation can happen in your matriarchal type society in which the woman is independent, dominant and in control. It changes nothing.
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Originally posted by loseyournameIt doesn't happen when both parties are equally capable of taking care of themselves without having to be dominating or submissive toward anyone. This is what is meant by "equal." We aren't chimpanzees here. We don't need a pecking order.Achkerov kute.
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