Ode to the Nice Guys

[loseyourname]

What the hell is wrong with being a xxxx? As long as you are a monogamous xxxx, who cares?

[violette829]

How can one be a monogomous sluut? If you are sexually free with your 1 partner, then you're not a sluut! Unless you like being called a sluut by your man, which is always a turn on!

In reply to Leo's post about sluuts, I have to say this:

I am not advocating that women sleep with 100 men and that it's okay...I am just upset that men have had the upper hand in this situation for too long. I don't understand how it's any different if a man sleeps around or a woman sleeps around. As Tres said, men and women can both be considered sluuts! Also, you CANNOT compare women's lives today to those of 50-100 years ago. We have a lot more on our plates than before. We have more independence, but with that comes more responsibility. Before, all we had to do was get married, stay at home, raise children (which is very difficult), but that's basically it. Oh yea, we also had to spread our legs every time our husbands snapped their fingers...But, we were just there to handle the duties of being a wife and mother. Also, during that time, dating and courtship was much easier. Women didn't have to worry about a man's past, or his baby mama, or his mama's mama...lol. We just have a lot more to worry about now, and to handle all that, we have changed our way of thinking. So, what happens? WE GET SH*T FROM GUYS SAYING THAT WE'RE TOO MODERN! WE ARE BEING xxxxS! WOMEN HAVE LOST THEIR FEMININITY! WE ARE TOO SLUUTY! .....and so on.... I just think it's very difficult to be a woman. Men have to appreciate us, as they do their mothers!

[Crimson Glow]

Well....you just said yourself that women have sunk to "men's level", so that takes care of one part of my argument. I guess the real problem I have, while these women are down here WITH us on our sluuty level, is that they still want a quality guy, or have the audacity to criticize guys. Life may have been different in years past, but it seems a tad bit hypocritical to now say "fuk it, if you can't beat 'em, join 'em", and yet still rip on guys for being sluuts. It used to be that women were supposed to have a hard time finding decent men. Now, the direct opposite is just as true, if not worse. As more and more women join the realm of human skanks, more and more men at least are joining the.....metrosexual trend. I guess guys are just upset because they never fathomed the idea that they may be in this situation. How about people suck? Let's just leave it at that.

[violette829]

I never said that it's good to be a sluut....I was just saying that if women who sleep with men are called sluuts, then men have been sluuts since...GOD KNOWS WHEN!

Seriously...people DO suck! Unfortunately, women get the bad rep for it.

[PASAMONSTER]

you're right violette


A sucker is born everyday, but swallowers are hard to find. LOL

[leo007]

I have to agree with Violette. Whatever do those "x"'s stand for? If they are what Violette mentioned, you have stated a very ignorant opinion. I hope you think twice about the validity of your question. As Violette said, if anything it's men who have invented the word "5lut", because they knew the real meaning behind it.

5lut --- a woman practicing the same sexual promiscuity as men, against the male/social acceptance.

Well, I say that because of what i've seen. I never said all, I said a lot. A lot that i've seen. I never stated in my post that men are any better. A lot of men really don't have any respect for women, which isn't right at all. But why would women have to put up with a man wh0re, no one forces women to put up with them. They should go after the guys that don't just look at girls as a piece of ass instead of thinking "oh well then xxxx this double standard BS, since it's like that I guess i'll just be a s l u t as well".

[leo007]

How can one be a monogomous sluut? If you are sexually free with your 1 partner, then you're not a sluut! Unless you like being called a sluut by your man, which is always a turn on!

In reply to Leo's post about sluuts, I have to say this:

I am not advocating that women sleep with 100 men and that it's okay...I am just upset that men have had the upper hand in this situation for too long. I don't understand how it's any different if a man sleeps around or a woman sleeps around. As Tres said, men and women can both be considered sluuts!

Yes, I agree that both can be considered xxxxs.

Also, you CANNOT compare women's lives today to those of 50-100 years ago. We have a lot more on our plates than before. We have more independence, but with that comes more responsibility. Before, all we had to do was get married, stay at home, raise children (which is very difficult), but that's basically it. Oh yea, we also had to spread our legs every time our husbands snapped their fingers...

As opposed to now where you (not you, you know what I mean) have to spread your legs for a male s l u t that just wants a piece of ass? Then complain that guys are pigs?

But, we were just there to handle the duties of being a wife and mother. Also, during that time, dating and courtship was much easier. Women didn't have to worry about a man's past, or his baby mama, or his mama's mama...lol. We just have a lot more to worry about now, and to handle all that, we have changed our way of thinking. So, what happens? WE GET SH*T FROM GUYS SAYING THAT WE'RE TOO MODERN! WE ARE BEING xxxxS! WOMEN HAVE LOST THEIR FEMININITY! WE ARE TOO SLUUTY! .....and so on.... I just think it's very difficult to be a woman.

I didn't complain about women being modern. It's just that sometimes they seem to lose themselves and feel they have to show the world how independent they are and say "look, look what I can do". Typical attention wh0res, well some of them anyways. You're independent, that's great, so show some respect for yourself. If they were truly independent, they wouldn't go down on their male wh0re boyfriends as soon as he snaps his fingers.

If a girl is a genuine s l u t, she deserves to be with a male s l u t and vice versa. I don't have a problem with s l u t s, if a girl or guy is a s l u t, whatever, that's their thing, but I don't have any respect for them. Other than that, I really don't care, but when they start complaning that "guys are xxxxs" and saying other things when they clearly put themselves in a position to be looked at as just a piece of ass, then they have no right to complain.

Men have to appreciate us, as they do their mothers!

Yes, that's how I believe a women should be appreciated. But these days how can men appreciate the women out there the same way they appreciate their moms? A girl goes around sucking off 3 different guys a week, what kind of respect does she deserve? And in reality, would women like it if they were appreciated the same way men appreciate their mothers? Probably not (not all of course, so don't quote me "saying all women aren't like that", but a lot), they might just label him as a "nice guy" and get bored and move on to the next guy.

[Anonymouse]

I think I feel like creating some tension this morning.
















It's okay for a guy to be a 5lut, but not a girl.

[dstyle]

I think I feel like creating some tension this morning.




It's okay for a guy to be a 5lut, but not a girl.

I agree. mannnnggggg.

[spiral]

"ohhh.....so sad...so sad..."