Long Distance Relationships

[hyebruin]

It's funny you say that because it seems as though a lot of girls who ain't worth a damn think they're better than they are because a lot of guys pump their ego up just because they want ass.

very shrewd! hmm good point you brought up! people regardless of gender will present themselves like they ARE something 'awe inspiring' or 'special' when in reality they themselves are not happy/proud/content with who they are and what they have to offer! ---thus referring back to another point i made about polygamous guys who take 'pride' in their 'wild' ways thinking that THAT makes them somehow 'macho' or something! unless a guy is 18-early 20's it's sort of all right to be that way...(up to a certain point) but that kind of mentality in later years like late 20s and 30's and god forbid 40's is a TOTAL TURN OFF!!!

i'm not a shrink, but this is how i see it: the less emotionally developed a man is (also a woman) the more he tries to use sexuality as an all defining element of who he is...how sad! either that or he's a late bloomer!?

[Anonymouse]

What about long distance relationships?

[nairi]

I think it is entirely possible that a couple talk more and connect on a much deeper and intimate level when the relationship is long distance than otherwise.

Yes, but sex must come in at one point if the intimacy long distance is intimate enough. Eventually you will want to see each other and when that happens and you truly fall in love, it's hard to part, unless things sour over time. Long distance relationship between lovers? No. Between friends? Yes.

[sleuth]

[QUOTE=SagGal

Long distance relationships are good to test the couple's commitment to each other. If someone from the relationship begins to be fall for someone else, it's obvious that the love is just not there. If they both call each other everyday, always have something to talk about and are faithful to each other, that's a good sign. This is why a lot of couples tend to stay apart for some time to test their relationshis.

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Ditto!!

[sleuth]

Yes, but sex must come in at one point if the intimacy long distance is intimate enough. Eventually you will want to see each other and when that happens and you truly fall in love, it's hard to part, unless things sour over time. Long distance relationship between lovers? No. Between friends? Yes.

Can we just forget about sex for a while???

[gevo]

I hate it when sex is braught into the picture of an unmarried couple and used as a reason for being a certain way or doing acertain thing.. it shouldnt be like that!!!!

And, i think that it is nice to be intimately connected *intellectual intimacy* and talk alot without having the "love/lust/looks thing cloud eachothers judgment.. and especially sex!!!... almost everyone i know that has had sex.. has broken up with that gf.. infact.. i know too many cases like that..

[dstyle]

Stop talking bad about sex. hehe.

[Anonymouse]

I hate it when sex is braught into the picture of an unmarried couple and used as a reason for being a certain way or doing acertain thing.. it shouldnt be like that!!!!

And, i think that it is nice to be intimately connected *intellectual intimacy* and talk alot without having the "love/lust/looks thing cloud eachothers judgment.. and especially sex!!!... almost everyone i know that has had sex.. has broken up with that gf.. infact.. i know too many cases like that..

I agree, it's more along the lines of that spiritual bond.

[hyebruin]

I agree, it's more along the lines of that spiritual bond.

oh please! like anyone is gonna wait for anyone long distance! gimme a break! only place these lies are told is in cheesy hollywood movies! out of sight, out of mind, that's how it is with most people! you are talkin about a very miniscule minority who probably live in the andes!

[Genuine_Stud]

oh please! like anyone is gonna wait for anyone long distance! gimme a break! only place these lies are told is in cheesy hollywood movies! out of sight, out of mind, that's how it is with most people! you are talkin about a very miniscule minority who probably live in the andes!

Very true. The andes.... hahaha