Long Distance Relationships

[ckBejug]

oh please! like anyone is gonna wait for anyone long distance! gimme a break! only place these lies are told is in cheesy hollywood movies! out of sight, out of mind, that's how it is with most people! you are talkin about a very miniscule minority who probably live in the andes!

Do you mean waiting sex-wise or relationship-wise? Because it's really not a problem for some people to wait sex-wise because if you've never had sex w/your bf that eliminates the problem of 'having to wait until he gets back to get some.'

[Anonymouse]

oh please! like anyone is gonna wait for anyone long distance! gimme a break! only place these lies are told is in cheesy hollywood movies! out of sight, out of mind, that's how it is with most people! you are talkin about a very miniscule minority who probably live in the andes!

I strongly disagree with you.

[nairi]

We can't leave sex out of a relationship between lovers because it is exactly that that bonds us to a deeper level, both spiritually and physically. We want to reproduce and the most intimate moment (esp. for women) is sex. Spiritual bonding, if intimate enough, will automatically lead to physical and sexual bonding. It's in our instinct. No point in denying it.

[Sip]

Well, then obviously you haven't had online sex.

[dusken]

I do agree that sexuality is very important in a relationship and does contribute to the depth of it. The feelings that sexuality is an entirely superficial portion of a relationship is over-romanticized, over-religionized crap.

[Inna]

I think long distance relationships can work, and I'm only saying it cause I see it working pretty well for my friend. She met her current boyfriend at a church camp and they've been dating for 2 yrs now. I think they even plan to get married after she graduates. It all depends on what the true meaning of the relationship is, if its just purely physical then of course a long distance relationship wouldnt work, but if theres more love and emotion involved then I think it could diffently work.

[hyebruin]

Do you mean waiting sex-wise or relationship-wise? Because it's really not a problem for some people to wait sex-wise because if you've never had sex w/your bf that eliminates the problem of 'having to wait until he gets back to get some.'

sex is secondary! how can you establish trust?...especially long distance! people have affairs when they're together living in the same house and married and 'committed'...you gonna tell me you will trust someone long distance? if anyone's willing to do this, then they must also be ready for the bitter consequence/possibility of that person finding someone else who is closer..it really is that simple! unfortunately...

[loseyourname]

Do you mean waiting sex-wise or relationship-wise? Because it's really not a problem for some people to wait sex-wise because if you've never had sex w/your bf that eliminates the problem of 'having to wait until he gets back to get some.'

My guess is that it's a lot easier for you to wait than it is for him.

[ckBejug]

My guess is that it's a lot easier for you to wait than it is for him.

Based on past experience I'd say you're right.

[gevo]

It all depends on what the true meaning of the relationship is, if its just purely physical then of course a long distance relationship wouldnt work, but if theres more love and emotion involved then I think it could diffently work.

HAHA i think somewhere before i said these exact words .. shat ghelatsi es du voncvor hehe