Being in love

[Anonymouse]

They are in love.

[hyebruin]

she looks dead! but he's hot!

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

All u ppl love to talk a lot and never say anything real. When the right person comes to u and u really fall in love, than u wouldnt be so bitter about it. The most important thing in this life is to create family, i dont know many people who never had their own families are happy. There is love for every person, all u need is to go and get it and make nice loving family. Life is full of experiences, which includes heartbreaking situations. It's not the end of the world u know...b/c some had bad relationships doesnt mean that love isnt true. oof i hate dealing with pessimistic ppl like u, chear God dammit! U have ur whole life to be loved and to love.

BYE

[hyebruin]

yada yada yada...

[HyeJinx1984]

we're referring to romantic love here and what hopeless b.s. it turns out to be most of the time

How wrong you are, kourig jan... how very, very wrong indeed.

[hyebruin]

How wrong you are, kourig jan... how very, very wrong indeed.

[gevo]

so, being in love...... where were we???? lol

[Crimson Glow]

All u ppl love to talk a lot and never say anything real. When the right person comes to u and u really fall in love, than u wouldnt be so bitter about it. The most important thing in this life is to create family, i dont know many people who never had their own families are happy. There is love for every person, all u need is to go and get it and make nice loving family. Life is full of experiences, which includes heartbreaking situations. It's not the end of the world u know...b/c some had bad relationships doesnt mean that love isnt true. oof i hate dealing with pessimistic ppl like u, chear God dammit! U have ur whole life to be loved and to love.

And what you just handed us is saying something real? First of all, I've never been IN love to be bitter about it, or be heartbroken by it. Secondly, the most important thing to YOU in life is to create a family, don't speak for others. And "there's a love for everyone, go out and find it"??? What the hell does that exactly mean? How do you go about "looking" for love? It's not a pair of perfect jeans somewhere in the mall, you can't search for it. That mentality is exactly why people end up with the wrong guy/girl. It either happens, or it doesn't. When you "go out and look for it", more times than not, you end up forcing the situation, which is why most relationships are a facade and end up leading right back to what I stated in my original post. My view is not meant to be pessimism, it's called real life observations. If the conclusions I've drawn from those observations happen to look pessimistic, there's nothing I can do about that.

And you don't know of anyone without a family who is happy?? What are you doing, only talking to Armenians who think it's the end of the world if they don't start a family? I know PLENTY of people who aren't married and don't have kids that couldn't care less. At the same time, I don't know too many people who are married who are *TRULY* happy, not the little act they put on for themselves and you, and the divorce rate speaks volumes to prove this.

Fire, it is people like you who make people like me look pessimistic by blindly going with the status quo mentality. Stop being affraid of annalyzing life, and push the envolope. This is not an issue of being pessimistic, it's a matter of facing problems to make things better in the long run. People need to wake up and smell the bullsh*t for a change, instead of shrouding it with the fabricated scent of roses. Why live in mediocrity if we can alter the commonplace for the better? Positive changes don't occur by ignoring our negative predispositions.



Aaaaaaaand as for you, Mousy. What the hell does my view of the matrix have to do with this conversation? You do not have to agree with my stance on that subject at ALL to share my views on this topic, as well as just about all other topics I've commented on. In fact, my much broader outlook on reality has rarely played into this forum. I know you are fully aware of what I'm talking about in this thread as well as others, weather you admit it or not. Most of what I've commented on has been a matter of annalyzing society, which is not exactly something new. It's called sociology.

And the Matrix doesn't "have me", Mouse. As I've said numerous times before, the movie didn't give me some "new, profound understanding" on life. This was merely my interpretation of the movie because I had this outlook LONG before the movie was ever created. The movie just gave me something to use as a visual for people when I'm trying to explain my outlook, so you need to stop with this silly notion, mmmmmmmkkk?

[HyeJinx1984]

I gotta say it's really amusing to sit back and watch all this discussion an argument over what I consider to be one of the simplest and most attainable concepts on the planet. Oh well.

[Tres Bien]

No one has forced anyone to marry, or to have a boyfriend girldfriendŽ, no one is forcing you to end up with a looser. (there are exceptions of course) Everyone has to make their own choices in life, in what suits them the best.