What matters most?

[Stark Evade]

A friend of mine was interested in a guy who was quite funny and had a good sense of humor but turned out to be a selfish, inconsiderate bastard.

[violette829]

Basically, this is what it boils down to...Everyone has more or less of a certain character trait....it's up to us to decide which is more important and which is okay to just "deal with".

[Stark Evade]

If my name was Seapahn I would say something to the effect of "Character traits are not the result of boiling."

[violette829]

If my name was Seapahn I would say something to the effect of "Character traits are not the result of boiling."

That was quite funny and made me smile. I love Seapahn quotes..he's the best!

[Anonymouse]

What a primitive thread topic that exists on every forum, yet here we have complications, like Dyck Cheney's heart.

[Sip]

... thus hopefully making it slightly different than the tired old "I want sense of humor, looks, and personality" mumbo jumbo which really doesn't say much other than "I'll know it when I see it".

[thedebutante]

I agree. That's why I mentioned the "penis muscle."

[sad_eyes]

honestly....

I am more of a personality girl myself. If the person is funny, honest, and has a general good heart, then I am set. I cannot emphesize enough how looks have no (zero, neit, non,) importance to me. I just want someone who I can be myself around, which...lol requires a veryyyyy laid back personality with a good sense of humour. But dont get me wrong, I need a little seriousness in him too.

Violette829, I have to metion that I love your avatar. very cute

[sSsflamesSs]

I cannot emphesize enough how looks have no (zero, neit, non,) importance to me.

That's a lie, and you know it.

[ckBejug]

That's a lie, and you know it.

But she emphasized in THREE different languages!!!