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  • #21
    Originally posted by Margi
    Hi everyone, I was wondering if someone could help me. my first boyfriend made me have sex with him and told me that he was going to marry me. i believed him and was all happy with him until my parents told me that i couldnt be with him. they wouldnt let me see him. so i broke up with him. after a year i met someone and loved him like crazy. he loved me too. we've been together for a year now. and he found out what happened between me and my ex. after 6 months of knowing it he is telling me that he cant except the fact that i had sex with him and he is basically leaving me. i love him so much that i'll do anything in the world for him. how can i get him back. i mean he understood it at first but than he is telling me now that he wants a virgin girl. i want him back, please tell how to.
    Achkerov kute.

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    • #22
      Oo Now I'm starting to hate Days of our Lives...such bad acting.
      You can't hold a man down without staying down with him.

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      • #23
        To be honest, I'm phucking sick of stupid threads like this.
        Achkerov kute.

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        • #24
          Its Okei Anony...the girl is young. She doesnt know to do and what she wants. As you already know. She just wants support and some advice, no harm in making a thread for that. She wants to know if she can fall in love again. Which she will. Yes I know at 19 I didnt do things that she has done but thats just me.

          By the way missy...you will find someone...dont you worry. Just work on doing good at school right now and put your mind to that. You will then realize how much you have grown after you let go of this stuff.
          You can't hold a man down without staying down with him.

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          • #25
            Originally posted by XxgoeyxX
            Its Okei Anony...the girl is young. She doesnt know to do and what she wants. As you already know. She just wants support and some advice, no harm in making a thread for that. She wants to know if she can fall in love again. Which she will. Yes I know at 19 I didnt do things that she has done but thats just me.
            Now, now, Goey, let's not make excuses for inept people that lack self respect and discipline. I am told I am 'mean' for saying this to people, but someone has to. It sounds like such a cliche topic that only cliche people would talk about. She deserves what she got, because she did this to herself, and nothing more. Maybe next time she can keep her legs closed more often. The precise problem is that social idiocy that we've come to accept as "falling in love". Every random act of confusion that comes from ones carnal impulses is dubbed as "falling in love".
            Achkerov kute.

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            • #26
              Originally posted by Anonymouse
              Now, now, Goey, let's not make excuses for inept people that lack self respect and discipline. I am told I am 'mean' for saying this to people, but someone has to. It sounds like such a cliche topic that only cliche people would talk about. She deserves what she got, because she did this to herself, and nothing more. Maybe next time she can keep her legs closed more often. The precise problem is that social idiocy that we've come to accept as "falling in love". Every random act of confusion that comes from ones carnal impulses is dubbed as "falling in love".

              Yes I know Anony...thats why I didnt say you were mean. And if I were to say it, it would be as a silly joke. And that is why I told her in the beginning that her ex didnt make her have sex it was her choice. She is the only that did this to herself. And that is why I said its her bf choice for not being with her. I am not blaming him for not wanting her. I'm just saying if he does it too then he shouldnt be talking at all. But given by the facts I believe he just thinks she is a xxxx now and doesnt want anything to do with her.

              Im only giving her support. I can be just as harsh...but where will that get me? Other ppl saying how wrong I am. When in fact I know it was her fault. When in fact I know she did all of this to herself and her bf should not be blamed because she didnt respect herself enough to not have sex.

              What is a 16 year old doing have sex. Why? I cannot understand that.
              You can't hold a man down without staying down with him.

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              • #27
                Anon, don't badmouth her. In our mind, she made a mistake (losing her virginity) when she was 16, but don't be rude to her about it. It's not helping her in any way.
                Originally posted by Margi
                Everyone, i was only 16 when the whole thing happened with my ex. and i'm 19 now. he took me out yesterday, and he treated me like crap. He told me that the only people that will want to ever be in a relationship with me are gonna be either parskahays (Persian armenians ) or berutahays. I love him so much. i feel like i'm never gonna fall in love again. how shall i get over him. please someone tell me how i can get over him. he made it clear to me last night that he knows 99% that we're not gonna be together. and one more thing he gets so wierd when another guy looks at me. he feels like its my fault that they are looking at me. is he jealous or what? help me please someone what shall i do?
                He took you out yesterday and treated you like crap? What a jerk. My advice to you would be to HATE him. HATE him with passion because he is a __________. Eh, I can't even come up with the most horrible word to describe anyone who would do this. I am sorry if I am being rude to you. Saying that he's horrible and all, but it is obvious that he only took you out yesterday for you to have a horrible day. If you can't stop thinking about him, at least think about the horrible things he said, how very jelous he is (as sad_eyes said) and jelous men are the worst. As they become older, they become more jelous and possesive.
                I see...

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                • #28
                  Originally posted by SagGal
                  Anon, don't badmouth her. In our mind, she made a mistake (losing her virginity) when she was 16, but don't be rude to her about it. It's not helping her in any way.
                  I do not care. It's the surest and quickest way to make someone understand your position and the wrongness of their acts.
                  Achkerov kute.

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                  • #29
                    Originally posted by SagGal
                    Anon, don't badmouth her. In our mind, she made a mistake (losing her virginity) when she was 16, but don't be rude to her about it. It's not helping her in any way.
                    He took you out yesterday and treated you like crap? What a jerk. My advice to you would be to HATE him. HATE him with passion because he is a __________. Eh, I can't even come up with the most horrible word to describe anyone who would do this. I am sorry if I am being rude to you. Saying that he's horrible and all, but it is obvious that he only took you out yesterday for you to have a horrible day. If you can't stop thinking about him, at least think about the horrible things he said, how very jelous he is (as sad_eyes said) and jelous men are the worst. As they become older, they become more jelous and possesive.

                    I dont understand why she has to HATE him as you stated. What will that solve...her hating every man that treats her that way. Feeling like she is used all the time. Thats not a good way to look someone or something. Just beacuse he treated her bad does not mean she has to go to his level and hate him for being ignorant and a jerk.
                    You can't hold a man down without staying down with him.

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                    • #30
                      If she will HATE him, she will get over him and from what she told us, she really needs to forget him. If she concentrates on the bad qualities he has, she will not love him anymore.
                      ...her hating every man that treats her that way.
                      Who said anything about her hating every man. If EVERY man she ever dates treats her like crap, she will learn how to deal with it from her previous relationships.

                      Originally posted by Anonymouse
                      I do not care. It's the surest and quickest way to make someone understand your position and the wrongness of their acts.
                      She's not asking for you position on this or if her acts were right or wrong. All she wanted was some advice.
                      I see...

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