Relationship "Problem"

[sad_eyes]

I am in an relationship with an armenian guy who I love and want to marry. Although he does love me in return he cant marry me because of his traditions. Which I understand and respect, which is why I dont fight it. After knowing this, I tend to think of leaving him but the thing is I cant bring myself to leave him because...the thought of not being with him hurts me, very much. We have been together for about a year. And we have gone through alot together. Mainly due to the fact that we wanted to be together and others did not approve of it. His friends believe that we were meant to be together, and I believe it too. I am stuck in a situation and I dont know how to solve any of it. Were not going to be together forever, so................I dont know, what do you people think I should do?

[Emil]

I am in an relationship with an armenian guy who I love and want to marry. Although he does love me in return he cant marry me because of his traditions. Which I understand and respect, which is why I dont fight it. After knowing this, I tend to think of leaving him but the thing is I cant bring myself to leave him because...the thought of not being with him hurts me, very much. We have been together for about a year. And we have gone through alot together. Mainly due to the fact that we wanted to be together and others did not approve of it. His friends believe that we were meant to be together, and I believe it too. I am stuck in a situation and I dont know how to solve any of it. Were not going to be together forever, so................I dont know, what do you people think I should do?

So you're going to stay with him till he decides to get married. Then at that point he'll break up with you, find a girl to marry and you'll be out of luck, eh?

[sad_eyes]

Its rather complicated. He doesnt want to get married. He says he is not ready. And I believe he is confused on what he should do.

[Anonymouse]

Ok, this sappy love and romance talk makes me want to watch some chick flick. Can we stop this?

[sad_eyes]

I am sorry Anonymouse....I am very upset about this and I am confused....I thought getting an Armenian perspective on things would help. Sorry people.

[Anonymouse]

I am sorry Anonymouse....I am very upset about this and I am confused....I thought getting an Armenian perspective on things would help. Sorry people.

It's okay, I'm confused about this too. I really don't wanna watch a chick flick. You surely wouldn't want me to suffer so would you?

[Inna]

I am sorry Anonymouse....I am very upset about this and I am confused....I thought getting an Armenian perspective on things would help. Sorry people.

Don't be sorry...Anon just doesnt like to see other people in love. We need to show him some love every now and then so he feels good about himself.
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We love you Anon!

[sad_eyes]

I get you, its ok.

[HyeJinx1984]

I used to think about this a lot. I could have loooong discussions about whether or not Armenians should or shouldn't marry outside their race. I've spent my life pondering this subject. Hwever, after all this time I've come to a simple and definate answer... No.

[Anonymouse]

I used to think about this a lot. I could have loooong discussions about whether or not Armenians should or shouldn't marry outside their race. I've spent my life pondering this subject. Hwever, after all this time I've come to a simple and definate answer... No.

Armenians are not a race, and yes they should only marry apples, not oranges.