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  • #41
    Originally posted by sad_eyes
    The lack of maturity in this site really bugs me sometimes. I may be younger than some of you yes. And for the record I am 21. However, it appears to me that my maturity level is sky rocketing out of this site compared to a couple of you.
    Unfortunately, I couldn't agree more.
    Last edited by ckBejug; 09-15-2004, 09:04 PM.
    The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function. -- F. Scott Fitzgerald

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    • #42

      u guys crack me up, the only person who appreciated my sarcasm was Bejug.

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      • #43
        Originally posted by sad_eyes
        The lack of maturity in this site really bugs me sometimes. I may be younger than some of you yes. And for the record I am 21. However, it appears to me that my maturity level is sky rocketing out of this site compared to a couple of you.
        Life is too short to be all the time serius, so by being a little "immature" wouldnt bother. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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        • #44
          Originally posted by sad_eyes
          I am in an relationship with an armenian guy who I love and want to marry. Although he does love me in return he cant marry me because of his traditions. Which I understand and respect, which is why I dont fight it. After knowing this, I tend to think of leaving him but the thing is I cant bring myself to leave him because...the thought of not being with him hurts me, very much. We have been together for about a year. And we have gone through alot together. Mainly due to the fact that we wanted to be together and others did not approve of it. His friends believe that we were meant to be together, and I believe it too. I am stuck in a situation and I dont know how to solve any of it. Were not going to be together forever, so................I dont know, what do you people think I should do?
          Just talk to him. Tell him that you are confused and ask him for the last time if it is absolutely impossible for you guys to stay together. If he says that it’s impossible, then it is best to break up with him now. The longer you stay with him, the more horrible you would feel after the inevitable break up.

          Also, I wish that after getting serious with someone, people would just ask themselves if they would ever marry that person. If the answer is no, they should please do everyone a favor and end things before someone gets hurt.

          And Sad eyes, none of this is fair to you. This is the perfect time for you to see how much of our Armenian culture you have amassed. See if you have accumulated any of that oh-so-controversial yet forever ingrained Armenian Pride, and walk away from this relationship.

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          • #45
            Originally posted by sad_eyes
            It is your opinion, and you are welcome to it. And trust me sweetie, I am grown up enough to know that it is a big deal.
            Um yeah. He thinks you're good enough to xxxx but not to make a life with. And you're sad about having to break up with him? Yeah I have it all wrong silly me...

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            • #46
              Originally posted by patlajan
              Um yeah. He thinks you're good enough to xxxx but not to make a life with. And you're sad about having to break up with him? Yeah I have it all wrong silly me...
              I'm afraid I have to agree with the eggplant.
              Achkerov kute.

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              • #47
                Originally posted by patlajan
                Um yeah. He thinks you're good enough to xxxx but not to make a life with. And you're sad about having to break up with him? Yeah I have it all wrong silly me...

                I wanted to say it but I couldnt....I jusssttt couldnt....Sooo I posted my other comments.
                You can't hold a man down without staying down with him.

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                • #48
                  Originally posted by patlajan
                  Um yeah. He thinks you're good enough to xxxx but not to make a life with. And you're sad about having to break up with him? Yeah I have it all wrong silly me...
                  Hey, think about what your saying before you write it down. You hvae no right to assume that. That is very ignorant of you. You guys are very cruel and have no hearts.

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                  • #49
                    Originally posted by patlajan
                    Um yeah. He thinks you're good enough to xxxx but not to make a life with. And you're sad about having to break up with him? Yeah I have it all wrong silly me...
                    Rachel's right. You don't have any right to say that. You don't know him. You have very limited knowledge about their relationship. You have no basis on which to tell her essentially that he just wants to f*ck her and that she means nothing else to him. How insensitive.
                    [COLOR=#4b0082][B][SIZE=4][FONT=trebuchet ms]“If you think you can, or you can’t, you’re right.”
                    -Henry Ford[/FONT][/SIZE][/B][/COLOR]

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                    • #50
                      Originally posted by Siggie
                      Rachel's right. You don't have any right to say that. You don't know him. You have very limited knowledge about their relationship. You have no basis on which to tell her essentially that he just wants to f*ck her and that she means nothing else to him. How insensitive.
                      Be quiet. Women never like the truth. They are too busy clouding things with their emotions. The eggplant is on the money. You don't have to like it.
                      Achkerov kute.

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