sad_eyes, if this was not an issue (aka you were Armenian) would you guys be talking about marriage already? You are not so old that you cant take your time and just enjoy being in love!
Dont worry about wasting your feelings. You will not use up your potential for love in a hundred life times. You said that youve had to overcome challanges just to be together. Now that you have that chance, enjoy being together. Dont spend your time together worrying about something you dont need to take any action on right now. Now THAT would be a waste. If you are happy together now then consider yourselves lucky and take advantage of it while you can. There is a reason they say, "Its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." ...or however it goes.
When the time comes and you both want to get married and you are still in love and can respect each others cultures then maybe you will marry each other. You cant predict how you or he will feel in the future no matter how sure you feel right now. If he refuses then you dont want him anyway - and dont argue with this. Think about it...You want to marry a man who would do anything for you.
I am quite traditional myself and plan to marry an Armenian man, but if I was so in love that I would just not be as happy without that person in my life then I would not care. I havent been in love in over a year now and I cant wait to fall in love again. When you really connect with a person - like you guys seem to - it makes life better. Love like that is such a gift! Do not worry prematurely! Who is it helping? It is not good for anyone involved. Be happy with what you have now. ~Svetlana~
Dont worry about wasting your feelings. You will not use up your potential for love in a hundred life times. You said that youve had to overcome challanges just to be together. Now that you have that chance, enjoy being together. Dont spend your time together worrying about something you dont need to take any action on right now. Now THAT would be a waste. If you are happy together now then consider yourselves lucky and take advantage of it while you can. There is a reason they say, "Its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." ...or however it goes.
When the time comes and you both want to get married and you are still in love and can respect each others cultures then maybe you will marry each other. You cant predict how you or he will feel in the future no matter how sure you feel right now. If he refuses then you dont want him anyway - and dont argue with this. Think about it...You want to marry a man who would do anything for you.
I am quite traditional myself and plan to marry an Armenian man, but if I was so in love that I would just not be as happy without that person in my life then I would not care. I havent been in love in over a year now and I cant wait to fall in love again. When you really connect with a person - like you guys seem to - it makes life better. Love like that is such a gift! Do not worry prematurely! Who is it helping? It is not good for anyone involved. Be happy with what you have now. ~Svetlana~
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