Respect or Love?

[clubbin714]

Respect all the way. Love is just a temporary emotion.

[ckBejug]

I feel like nobody understands my question… I’m NOT TALKIN about men and woman relationship”, I’m talking about general relationship with your friends, with your classmates, with people whom you know and contact every day, with your relatives…
I feel that only Hayq and HyeJinx understand what I’m talking about… It’s so simple, in one hand someone can think that you are so kind and generous and love you because of that but he/she can think that you are also sooooooooo stupid, and there is no need to talk to you about serious thinks…. But in another hand they can hate you, do not like your character but they can respect your knowledge and your attitude (as Hayq told “you can respect a famouse general but you do not have to love him")…
Yeh, in man and woman relationship I agree that love and respect should be together (but I saw other cases also) … LOVE is a huge feeling, which has many faces and deffinitions, and I do not think that the way we love our parents is the exact way how we love our friends or boyfriend/girlfriend...

I guess you confused us all when you posted a question about platonic friendship and relationship between two people in a LOVE AND ROMANCE forum.

[CatWoman]

I can't ♥ someone who doesn't respect me...but I can respect someone that I don't ♥.


But in a relationship, they're BOTH very important!

[Anonymouse]

"RESPECT! The terrorists will learn to RESPECT the American Empire. Forget love."

[loseyourname]

Agreed, this is a simple thing.. i dont see an issue in loving and tht love growing by the respect you have for whomever..

That's a load of sh*t. I think we'd mostly agree that our parents love us, but how many would say that their parents respect them?

[sad_eyes]

There are many forms of love and respect.

[Anushik]

Sounds like another confused teen thread. I better go to the gym now.

If you can not understand what I'm talking about, it doesn't meen that I'm confused... maybe you can think about this question in gym (which I do not believe)...

[Anushik]

I feel like nobody understands my question… I’m NOT TALKIN about men and woman relationship”, I’m talking about general relationship with your friends, with your classmates, with people whom you know and contact every day, with your relatives…
I feel that only Hayq and HyeJinx understand what I’m talking about… It’s so simple, in one hand someone can think that you are so kind and generous and love you because of that but he/she can think that you are also sooooooooo stupid, and there is no need to talk to you about serious thinks…. But in another hand they can hate you, do not like your character but they can respect your knowledge and your attitude (as Hayq told “you can respect a famouse general but you do not have to love him")…
Yeh, in man and woman relationship I agree that love and respect should be together (but I saw other cases also) … LOVE is a huge feeling, which has many faces and deffinitions, and I do not think that the way we love our parents is the exact way how we love our friends or boyfriend/girlfriend...

[Hayq]

that can work as well...relationships are not a science, what works for some does not work for all. We can only create a vague boundary of what works to create a healthy relationship.

[angelik22]

heres what i think- love grows out of respect for someone, and honesty, and careing for someone- therefore i think without respecting someone u cannot possibly love them and withough loveing somone u cannot possibly respect them....