Alright to be shy?

[ckBejug]

Yeah, but women often say and even think one thing but are actually deluding themselves. Chances are, you'd profess a want for a nice guy that respects you and most women would agree. But strangely enough, I've found in my experience that those whom I treat like xxxx and really have no interest in seem to be the ones that fawn over me the most.

Isn't it also true that the one's that are attracted to that attitude and fawn over you the most are also the one's who are more likely to cut and run and not stay around for the long run? I'm right, I know.

[GSTracer05]

I have a very reliable source who tells me it's not that simple because of your own personal choice. lol

I know! Your life would definitely simpler if you were just a bit more shy! (Bringing us back to the topic at hand...)

I'm as shy as they get! You keep exposing me like this on this forum, I'll be forced to raid your Thanksgiving dinner and eat your cooking! Especially the chocolate cake... labnerd!

[GSTracer05]

Isn't it also true that the one's that are attracted to that attitude and fawn over you the most are also the one's who are more likely to cut and run and not stay around for the long run? I'm right, I know.

I know too. .

[ckBejug]

I'm as shy as they get! You keep exposing me like this on this forum, I'll be forced to raid your Thanksgiving dinner and eat your cooking! Especially the chocolate cake... labnerd!

Shy?!?! LOL. Yes, you're shy like thedebutante is subtle (about her love for the mouse). (Sorry Deb, it was a good comparison)

[ckBejug]

until when???
someway or the other she's gonna find out one day that you're not. if we're talking long term. right?


oh yeah... pretend that you don't give a shet and pretend that youre a bad boy and pretend that you're not interested...... but be your "true self"!! ??
way to making sense.
I guess what you're talking about is purely to be used in the dating/having fun world.
no 2 people who care about each other torture each other with childish games. if you're thinkin games, then it's not lasting.

I agree. . . . .

[loseyourname]

Isn't it also true that the one's that are attracted to that attitude and fawn over you the most are also the one's who are more likely to cut and run and not stay around for the long run? I'm right, I know.

I didn't say these are the ones that I actually date. I just said they're the ones that seem to be most attracted to me. Personally, I prefer to go out with the women I'm attracted to.

[GSTracer05]

I'm sorry to say, but you and your mom seem to be hardcore sexists.

until when???
someway or the other she's gonna find out one day that you're not. if we're talking long term. right?


oh yeah... pretend that you don't give a shet and pretend that youre a bad boy and pretend that you're not interested...... but be your "true self"!! ??
way to making sense.
I guess what you're talking about is purely to be used in the dating/having fun world.
no 2 people who care about each other torture each other with childish games. if you're thinkin games, then it's not lasting.

You, my dear, are a very intelligent lady! I was explaining that people use these games/strategies in the dating world. I'm not a believer that you should use these strategies for long term goals or for someone you truly care about. If you bother to go back and read the earlier posts, you'll see what I mean. I'm not saying whats right or whats wrong, I'm pointing out what exists.

[sad_eyes]

I am quite shy myself. And I suppose I hate it. Most people I know are offended by it or think its odd. I, myself, dont see anything wrong with it however I dont want people to assume I am that way all the time. When I first meet people I immediately become very quiet and bashful. Its the way I am, however later I tend to open up.