Alright to be shy?

[loseyourname]

EEK, who's your target?
who are you seeking the attention of?
girls.
I'll let you make a decision.
you could either choose to listen to GUY who THINKS what he's been doing with girls is right and whom you don't even know (so you don't know whether or not his moves have been "successful") , OR you could listen to girls ,who are the object of your target and who obviously know what they want and are giving you advice.

Yeah, but women often say and even think one thing but are actually deluding themselves. Chances are, you'd profess a want for a nice guy that respects you and most women would agree. But strangely enough, I've found in my experience that those whom I treat like xxxx and really have no interest in seem to be the ones that fawn over me the most.

[Tres Bien]

if you will focus more on other people, than yourself, maybe you'll overcome your shyness or whatever it is you are dealing with....

[Anonymouse]

EEK, who's your target?
who are you seeking the attention of?
girls.
I'll let you make a decision.
you could either choose to listen to GUY who THINKS what he's been doing with girls is right and whom you don't even know (so you don't know whether or not his moves have been "successful") , OR you could listen to girls ,who are the object of your target and who obviously know what they want and are giving you advice.

Eek like I said. Girls do not know what they are talking about. Girls say one thing, but mean another. You don't want to listen to them. Trust me on this. You could listen to these girls and their subjective fantasies of what they want their ideal guy to do, or you can listen to me, and be practical and do what practical guys do to meet a girls practical goal at a party, hook up.

[Anonymouse]

Yeah, but women often say and even think one thing but are actually deluding themselves. Chances are, you'd profess a want for a nice guy that respects you and most women would agree. But strangely enough, I've found in my experience that those whom I treat like xxxx and really have no interest in seem to be the ones that fawn over me the most.

Oh yea, women never know what they are talking about. They say one thing and mean another. That is why you should also tell eek to not listen to these chicks. They are delusional. 'Nice' guys are pussified wussified pansys. Chicks dont like that. They like a confident gentleman who is xxxxy and funny and can make women feel that power of attraction.

[Genuine_Stud]

Oh yea, women never know what they are talking about. They say one thing and mean another. That is why you should also tell eek to not listen to these chicks. They are delusional. 'Nice' guys are pussified wussified pansys. Chicks dont like that. They like a confident gentleman who is xxxxy and funny and can make women feel that power of attraction.

You took the words right out of my mouth...perfectly put.

[Tres Bien]

I think you guys put to much emphasis on gender differences.

there are girls who like nice guys because they are the same way...and guys who like nice girls etc. etc.
Everyone is different...its better to be nice than to be a sucker in the long run.

[HyeJinx1984]

BULLSH!T!!!! EVERY GIRL IS A GODD@MN WH0RE!!! As the song goes... (not work safe) http://www.garageband.com/mp3/antiCh...0LdsaSnZFa3ams

[spiral]

But strangely enough, I've found in my experience that those whom I treat like xxxx and really have no interest in seem to be the ones that fawn over me the most.

I have also found in my experience, that those whom I treat Like xxxx, and really have no interest in seem to be the ones that fawn over me the most.


But I always thought this worked on guys, and not so much on girls.

[Anonymouse]

I have also found in my experience, that those whom I treat Like xxxx, and really have no interest in seem to be the ones that fawn over me the most.


But I always thought this worked on guys, and not so much on girls.

It works both ways.

[GSTracer05]

It works well if all you have are short term plans of getting someone's attention to get laid/hooking up, whatever.

I don't think that would be the strategy to use with someone you really care about.