Alright to be shy?

[XxgoeyxX]

NOthing works for me. I don't want to start the conversation/etc.. I want my shyness to disapear instantly!! No one knows how I feel

Your shyness wont dissapper over night my little pumpkin. It takes time. The more experience you have with girls, the more comfortable you feel being around people. I am shy myself. I have always been shy, especially when there is a group of people.(I'm not really close with I might add) Its like I forget how to speak. But over time, I have realized, who really cares you know. So in class, when I go out with friends, when someone opens the door for me, or whatever, I try to make the effort to look at them and say thank you and talk for that 20 seconds. I hope you understand what I mean. I even start a silly converstaion when I'm in line at the supermarket.

First of all, if you are that shy dont think you must start talking to girl off the bat inorder for this to get better. Just talk to whomever. BTW I do agree with Spiral and Sleuth. Though I understand what Anony is saying, and I am sure it has worked for him and his personality. In a way a girl does feel she is being left out. She can sance the guy isnt giving a damn. She can sance she is being ingored. No matter how cool you play it. Yes, when a guy comes up to me and starts a converstion, I know whats on their mind, but my initial reaction isnt "O what and dumn ass, look at him tring to hook up." If a girl thinks that way then she is thinking wayyy to highly of herself.

But !EEK whatever works for you is the best way to do it. I'm sure in a few years you will over come this. Sorry this took awhile to write, but better late then never. Hope you get something from it.

[!EEK]

Thanks goey but how do I do when my face is getting red? People notice that kind of stuff. At least when my hearth is beating at 120mph, it often does not show up.......... pfff with all these emotions I'll die at the age of 30

[HyeJinx1984]

OK, I pass the overly-emotional-drama-queen status to !EEK, I know longer hold that position, purgver em...

[!EEK]

OK, I pass the overly-emotional-drama-queen status to !EEK, I know longer hold that position, purgver em...

Ok maybe I exagerated my "I'll die at 30" part but this is still a jynx-ish thread and I would like support because I think I'm the shyest armenians

[GSTracer05]

Eek: Being called a "little pumpkin" by a girl doesnt help in the shyness department

[!EEK]

Eek: Being called a "little pumpkin" by a girl doesnt help in the shyness department

Lol yes, you are right, but I'm safe behind my computer screen

[HyeJinx1984]

LOL, nope, that's it, it's too late... I've passed you the torch, I am the drama queen no more.

[GSTracer05]

LOL, nope, that's it, it's too late... I've passed you the torch, I am the drama queen no more.

Can we start betting when you'll crack and come back with one of those beautiful pink diary posts you're so good at?

[!EEK]

LOL, nope, that's it, it's too late... I've passed you the torch, I am the drama queen no more.

Take back your xxxxing torch...it's all sticky! What did you do with it ?!!

[CatWoman]

hummmm... you turn red cuz you probably have a fair/light skin, so do I and I do turn red from time to time hehe but it's not that bad EEK, most people think it's cute Alrighty, now a suggestion... GET A TAN, then you won't be as red and will be more confident to talk to people (if turning red is your main concern)