Alright to be shy?

[gevo]

I gaurantee that when you start not trying to hard, you wil overcome your shyness...
as in, just be yourself, its in your head, you are thinking of outcome if youstrike a conversation, and the lame scenerios which you run through your head scare you away from speaking, which in turn makes you shy.. so be confident, as long as your not a awkward/stupid person.. just being friendly and being yoursle will be enough..

if tht doesnt work you can just give into eating and become one of thos people who are stuck to there beds, and they cant fit through the bedrrom door, and they weigh like a ton.. its your choice

[violette829]

Ahh the Jungle Book.



Baloo: “So, whatchu wanna do?”

Mowgli:"ai don’t know, whatchu wanna do?”

Baloo: I-dunno, whatchu wanna do?”

Mowgli-I-dunno, whatchu wanna do?

Baloo: I-dunno, whatchu wanna do?”

Mowgli: I-dunno, whatchu wanna do?

....................

[Mags]

Picture the people you're talking to naked....supposedly that seems to work *shrugs*

[!EEK]

Thanks for Baloo

Anyway, Mouse you are maybe right...I'm going to try to be a bit more open..altough not in front of my street, they would think I'm crazy.

As for being called "little pumkin" I'm really happy I have a nickname You could even call me "fully grown pumkin" when I'm 30

[loseyourname]

Assuming that you're talking about me, I have one thing to say to you Mr. Voluminous: EAT MY SHORTS. Where did you even come from? (please don't answer that) I'm just trying to help the guy. JERK~

Well, what are you the best at? We all convince ourselves of things that aren't necessarily true to maintain a confident outlook. Even I do this. I never said there was anything wrong with it. Heck, it's one of the central principles of athletic competition. The simple fact is, only one team wins, but every team has to believe it is the best and will win if it wants to have any chance.

[Thai-Samurai]

good advice by Anon up there. wow, you know screw EEK i'm going outside right now I see the mail lady coming by.

[loseyourname]

The only thing you really need to convince yourself is that you're good enough. Chances are that is the truth. You seem like a nice enough guy, and if you aren't ugly, I can't see why any girl wouldn't give you a chance. Still, lack of confidence is a turn-off. Why is it that you think you're shy?

[!EEK]

The only thing you really need to convince yourself is that you're good enough. Chances are that is the truth. You seem like a nice enough guy, and if you aren't ugly, I can't see why any girl wouldn't give you a chance. Still, lack of confidence is a turn-off. Why is it that you think you're shy?

Yeah maybe lack of confidence....I'm kinda "affraid"(it 's a word a bit too strong) of other people's reaction..

Oh and Gaucho, in belgium people aren't "more sincere" or "more anything", they just want to copy the American way of life but trust me they fail at it because you see a lot of confusion in everyone's reaction

[HyeJinx1984]

You're a good looking kid, you shouldn't have any problems.

[!EEK]

You're a good looking kid, you shouldn't have any problems.

...if only