Hmm. Check out my situation.

[GSTracer05]

And don't worry about bluntness racer dude guy. I appreciate it a lot more than fake nice comments.

Which is why I'm not saying "oh hayq, you're in the perfect situation, she really loves you"...

Well some of these forumers got offended easily. Anyways, I'm Andrew. I don't mind people using my name, forum or not.

[xBaron Dants]

And I am Baron Dants. I don't mind you using my name either.

(ok ok ...real name is Vruyr).

Moral of the story is, Hayq, get out of the zone you're in now, and get into the new one. Maybe if you swear at her a few times, she'll like you.

[Tres Bien]

Just because this one girl doesnt want you , doesnt mean that you automatically is what you call the little "nice guy" , or any stereotype. Why should you have to change for a girl? If you like her, tell her that..I dont belive in nice or bad...there are only stupid and smartI dont think there is anything wrong with beeing nice!

[gevo]

well. for this nice stuff.. all i have to say... from my own experiance i have been generally a nice guy.. a good friend etc..
but when it comes to the girl you like, for me it was fine, cause i am a.. umm.. freak.. lol.. masochist to say the least and enjoy anything that will get my body to shake from the adrenaline. i guess that is "freaky" enough for girls so that my "nice" side doesnt make me the rebound guy...? anywho.. in the end this nice crap doesnt matter much anyways, it how BOTH of you feel about eacchother.. and all the reasons for it.

plus dude your 16..

[Anonymouse]

16? Man, you should first focus on getting a driver license before getting this chick.

[patlajan]

You're in the friend zone already. Been there a couple of times. Rather irritating.

But there is hope if you act, and act quickly. Trust me, I was just met with success two weeks ago.

But if you're already at the stage where she talks to you about her periods...I'd say you missed your chance.

My ex girlfriend used to talk to me about her periods. Nothing wrong with that. If anything it's a sign of trust.

Anyway. To the kid that originally started this thread: Dude RELAX. Stop being a pushover and get a life. Stop acting like she's the only girl in the world because SHE'S NOT. Be your own person and you'll be fine.

Oh and here's a tip. Talk to her about YOUR problems too. That way maybe she'll realize you're a human being and not a rescue ranger.

[Mags]

I couldn't agree more.

16? Man, you should first focus on getting a driver license before getting this chick.

[patlajan]

It's better that he learns these things early. He'll be better off later on in life.
16 year olds shouldn't be learning to drive either. There's enough spacial orientation challanged people on the road already.

[Hayq]

oh yeah, im working on my license.

No, this is more of future reference as well.

So chix like the prick who is nice some of the times, hmm...yeah.

BTW, I never really wanted a gf or anything, I just wanted to know why the girl would go after the arse rather than me.

You answered, thanx.

[xBaron Dants]

What I've noticed is that when you have the sort of relationship with a girl where you just insult each other all the time (though you both know that it's all in good fun), there's chemistry there. I guess it's that sarcastic S.O.B. thing that Emil was mentioning. But to paraphrase the great Emil once again, you must also have "episodes" of niceness in between. It's a complicated balancing act. If you go too far one way, you're just a jerk, and if you go too far the other, you're a pushover.

Now if somebody's a complete jerk and the girl still falls for him...just be thankful that she doesn't like you. She just has issues.