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I'd say my preference for intellectual pursuits keeps me from having much interest in socializing. As such, I don't consider it a problem. There's nothing wrong with keeping me from doing something I don't want to do anyway. I'm still friendly when I need to be and don't have any trouble in public.
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Originally posted by ArmoBarbi
Armanchik
I am having a problem with someone at this very moment due to this!
Its amazing how rude these people can be, and how upset I am instead of him! I think he just doesnt understand the situation, and is emotionally repressed (or simply unaware) otherwise he would be upset as well. I dont know how people do cold things without feeling something.
Thats getting into another issue though... 
Andre, its what I mentioned to you the other night.
Maybe he already has a girl and you're imposing.Comment
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So what is your point?Originally posted by ArmoBarbi Armanchik
I am having a problem with someone at this very moment due to this!
Its amazing how rude these people can be, and how upset I am instead of him! I think he just doesnt understand the situation, and is emotionally repressed (or simply unaware) otherwise he would be upset as well. I dont know how people do cold things without feeling something. Thats getting into another issue though... Andre, its what I mentioned to you the other night.Achkerov kute.Comment
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Actually you have no clue what Im talking about, and should probably ask if you want to comment. This has nothing to do with romance, as I would never speak to this guy in real life. He looks like a thug with no future (or ability to think independently) He is stalking me online after I blocked him.Originally posted by thedebutanteComment
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I was sharing what came to my mind at the moment, kind of like you in your novel?Originally posted by AnonymouseComment
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I would hardly think of a thug as someone who has trouble socializing or high on the intellectual ladder. You shouldn't waste your time.Originally posted by ArmoBarbiAchkerov kute.Comment
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Btw, what are you talkin about? Tell me so I can comment.Comment
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Dont worry about it
I still think you should read No Exit by Sartre.
Dont being off topic now! Sorry, AndryushaaaComment
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Mouse just so touching...your post #6 in this thread (really - nice to see some heartfelt comments rather then your usual)...but have you ever considered that you have made a catch-22 for yourself? I think that the reason that you feel that you won't meet any gals that can offer you anything intellectually is that you have put blinders on to the fact that there are such women out there (and there certainly are). But of course - you want a subservant woman now don't you? Well smart you may be - but you really must work on your self-confidence - so easily shaken and made fearful by the thought of a woman with intellect...
My experience has alwayas been that I've gotten something of value (emotionally, intellectually, and/or lesson wise...at the very least...) from every relationship I have ever been in. But I always went for the independent, more or less intellectual - certainly smart - (and most often older and more experienced) kind of woman. Its all in what one values I guess. And I've rarely ever been in a relationship that I didn't find intellectually stimulating - but I alwasy sought this out...
Being alone is fine - and I've often felt as you have expressed (somewhat an outsider - in all things....) - still do in many ways...(I call it a minority of one) - but to desire such at the expense of socializing is IMO a reaction that bespeaks low self esteem. You may think that you are superior - etc - but you seem afraid to test it. And again - while I'm not unfamiliar with the perspective - in my (longer then you've been on this earth) time I've really come to respect the fact that most everyone (well at a certain level) has something to offer - and a great many people just blow me away - I can bask in their awsomeness - I'm not threatened by it....Comment
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Something else I was just thinking about, which occurs to me when I'm amidst the brain-dead zombies, looking on. Sometimes....after the frustration and aggetation subsides....and I'm not angry and in the mood to kill.....I kind of think about humanity as a whole, and start feeling....sorry for them. I mean....this is it for them. They will go to their graves never experiencing any of what we've talked about. They'll spend their lives being completely unconscious beings, never having fully understood/comprehended/appreciated their own existence. I almost feel bad that this is all their lives will amount to. Yup......aaaaaaalmost......
Anybody else ever feel this?Comment
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