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Just Married :)
Hello everyone,
I am Armenian from Iran and I've been living in U.S with my family for 5 years. I just got married and my husband and I worked really hard to make this marriage to happen. My family had a HARD time accepting the fact that their only daughter is getting married to an odar ( yap, that’s right ) and they kept blaming themselves. I guess it’s because I had never done anything weird and non acceptable in my whole life. I had always been the good girl and the girl for others to look up to in my huge family. I got a job over at Walt Disney co. and now it’s been 3 years I am working here, I study computer programming/Animation and I got my own BMW from the dealership and everyone was proud of me.
Well these all changed when I felt in love with an odar, we were Disney co-workers. The whole family (cousins+friends) started talking about it and saying bad things about me, because he was an odar. They would talk behind my back, things like I was not a virgin anymore and that I was living with him. Anyway, I had a very hard dating days, having to hear the family talk and then knowing that my family wished I was with an Armenian
BUT, I did what I wanted to do, because I had faith on us. We got married and during the time we dated I did NOT do anything “none Armenian”, I stayed a virgin and never lived with him. He has been learning Armenian ever since we met and he is a very respectful guy.. I am prd2bhye and will always stay hye, and I don’t care what my huge family says, their kids don’t even speak Armenian and my American husband does! LOL! So what the hell with what they say!
I can say that things aren’t as easy as we thought it would be now that we are married. We have our differences and sometimes it’s really hard for us to understand each other because we are coming from 2 very different cultures. Even thought I am married to him doesn’t mean I will become an American all of a sudden and will forget the Armenian culture and I can say I want things to be Armenian as much as they can be American. Like I cook and make Armenian food and cakes, I take him to Armenian concerts and listen to Armenian music. At least now I am married and no one can say non true stuff. The one thing that I hate about Armenians = " gossip "
I am Armenian from Iran and I've been living in U.S with my family for 5 years. I just got married and my husband and I worked really hard to make this marriage to happen. My family had a HARD time accepting the fact that their only daughter is getting married to an odar ( yap, that’s right ) and they kept blaming themselves. I guess it’s because I had never done anything weird and non acceptable in my whole life. I had always been the good girl and the girl for others to look up to in my huge family. I got a job over at Walt Disney co. and now it’s been 3 years I am working here, I study computer programming/Animation and I got my own BMW from the dealership and everyone was proud of me.
Well these all changed when I felt in love with an odar, we were Disney co-workers. The whole family (cousins+friends) started talking about it and saying bad things about me, because he was an odar. They would talk behind my back, things like I was not a virgin anymore and that I was living with him. Anyway, I had a very hard dating days, having to hear the family talk and then knowing that my family wished I was with an Armenian
BUT, I did what I wanted to do, because I had faith on us. We got married and during the time we dated I did NOT do anything “none Armenian”, I stayed a virgin and never lived with him. He has been learning Armenian ever since we met and he is a very respectful guy.. I am prd2bhye and will always stay hye, and I don’t care what my huge family says, their kids don’t even speak Armenian and my American husband does! LOL! So what the hell with what they say!
I can say that things aren’t as easy as we thought it would be now that we are married. We have our differences and sometimes it’s really hard for us to understand each other because we are coming from 2 very different cultures. Even thought I am married to him doesn’t mean I will become an American all of a sudden and will forget the Armenian culture and I can say I want things to be Armenian as much as they can be American. Like I cook and make Armenian food and cakes, I take him to Armenian concerts and listen to Armenian music. At least now I am married and no one can say non true stuff. The one thing that I hate about Armenians = " gossip "
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