Sexual territorialism? (?)

[Wiredrawn]

I don't know, it's a bit of trivia I picked up somewhere. Just my two dram.

that's cute

[Wiredrawn]

Of course - Armenian blood is Armenian blood - any time its diluted with Otar blood our country is getting screwed (as Red put it).

[ArmoBarbi]

Red, I dont even know where to start so I will abstain for now...

Wire, I didnt insult it, I simply said honestly that you didnt understand me and thanked you, I dont know how much nicer I could have been there. You got smart in the prior post, and made a joke based on the idea that the two feelings are one and the same. I have to specify that this is just not true. I can understand that its hard for you to realize because you havent felt it yourself, but at the same time I dont want jokes being made about a sensitive subject like this.

[CatWoman]

It is not the same.

If an Armenian man is screwing an Otar you should be proud, since our country is penetrating in the territories of other countries.

While when an Armenian woman is getting screwed it is as if they are invading to Armenia.

But...but...but they're both doing the same thing. They're both "having sex". Why do you use words differenlty to explain the same thing?

[Wiredrawn]

Red, I dont even know where to start so I will abstain for now...

Wire, I didnt insult it, I simply said honestly that you didnt understand me and thanked you, I dont know how much nicer I could have been there. You got smart in the prior post, and made a joke based on the idea that the two feelings are one and the same. I have to specify that this is just not true. I can understand that its hard for you to realize because you havent felt it yourself, but at the same time I dont want jokes being made about a sensitive subject like this.

I have been in love that was destroyed by relationships that he told me about..not by sex but other things in the relationship so don't even go there.
And are you're telling me that you don't have a problem with jealousy? Really?

[ArmoBarbi]

It takes time... you'll be fine in a month or two.

oh and welcome back!

Thanks!

Is there anything I can/should do that would help?? We have talked about it already, and I dont feel a desire to talk any more, so that one's out... Should I try more physical contact? Should I take the next step in intimacy? My best idea is to have sex with another man before him, but I dont think thats an option at this point...

You think these feelings will just fade? I find that hard to believe as much as Id like it... It seems more like they will go away only once I do these things with him myself, which I would accept, only to do those things in the first place I need to get over these emotions! Its one vicious cycle

[ArmoBarbi]

I have been in love that was destroyed by relationships that he told me about..not by sex but other things in the relationship so don't even go there.
And are you're telling me that you don't have a problem with jealousy? Really?

Yeah...Really

This has nothing to do with your prior relationship. That was hardly even like what I had with an ex. Its not a serious relationship with family envolved and potential for marriage. Its a totally different story and cannot be held to the same standards.

[CatWoman]

lol dork! Lets see, if you don't do it with him now and leave him because of that... if you ever get back together, there's gonna be more sexual partners from his past to deal with. So hurry up, before the numbers go up!

I don't know, I think it takes time... once you're intimate with him, it will all go away. But riiiight, you can't get intimate with him because of this, so why don't you drink a little before doing it? hahahaaaa

[Wiredrawn]

Yeah...Really

This has nothing to do with your prior relationship. That was hardly even like what I had with an ex. Its not a serious relationship with family envolved and potential for marriage. Its a totally different story and cannot be held to the same standards.

I don't go introducing my family to people...i just like to keep relationships very private. Just because i dont believe in marriage and i feel no need to bring anyone home, doesnt give you the right to call my relationship "not serious." And what do you know about that story other than a few details.

And, as someone watching from the sidelines, I can say that you do have a very serious problem with jealousy cause i've seen it at work quiet a few times.

[ArmoBarbi]

Hmm I may just be desporate enough to try that... cept knowing me Ill pass out from the alcohol before I even get any clothes off lol

Wire, love the Adolf!