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Fact of the day....
I learned this in my Soc 103 class a few years ago....
It is a proven fact, gathered evidence from psycholigists, doctors, and professors studying depression...if u tell me it isn't true, i will hunt u down and stick paper clips in ur eye lids...
The happiest and most satisfied group of people out there are:
MARRIED MEN!!!!!!!!
The group with the most depression and anxiety:
MARRIED WOMEN!!!!!!!
Note: It is going to be repetative if I sit here and tell u that not all women are gold-diggers and money hungry....But, I will tell u this..women have to deal with SO much more in the relationship than men. We feel all of the emotions of the relationships...we are the ones who have to make sure all is well so that we can help sustain the love between we have found (since it's so GOD DAMNED HARD TO FIND)...I would gladly switch roles and become the primary bread winner in the family...at least I know when work is done, it's DONE! Women are in a constant struggle in their daily lives....So here's the solution..I did this with my EX and it worked ..to a certain extent..
Just to prove that u are not money hungry...I propose that the girl offers to pay (and actually does) as much as she can...Paying for a xxxxin dinner is not gonna put a hole in anyone's wallet....Also, buy him little gifts during the relationship just because u love him and no other reason......Pick him up to go on ur dates, instead of waiting for him to pick u up...Give him pleasure without him even asking for it....
I did this and guess what:
HE CHEATED ON ME!!!!!!!!!
LOL well here it is guys~proof that no matter what the woman does for the man, he will always somehow break her heart. Be careful girls, there are a lot of xxxxxxxs in the world. Just make sure that u have ur lives all set out for u, so u won't have to depend on ANYONE>>>ESPECIALLY A MAN!
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Originally posted by violette829 Just to prove that u are not money hungry...I propose that the girl offers to pay (and actually does) as much as she can...Paying for a xxxxin dinner is not gonna put a hole in anyone's wallet....Also, buy him little gifts during the relationship just because u love him and no other reason......Pick him up to go on ur dates, instead of waiting for him to pick u up...Give him pleasure without him even asking for it....
I did this and guess what:
HE CHEATED ON ME!!!!!!!!!
LOL well here it is guys~proof that no matter what the woman does for the man, he will always somehow break her heart. Be careful girls, there are a lot of xxxxxxxs in the world. Just make sure that u have ur lives all set out for u, so u won't have to depend on ANYONE>>>ESPECIALLY A MAN!The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function. -- F. Scott Fitzgerald
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All the females here seem to think that mistreatment in a relationship is solely the domain of the other sex. Violette said it was a proven fact that married men are happier than those who are unmarried. That very strongly depends on who you are married to. I used to be married, and the woman was a terror - a social worker, no less. She was committed to a psych ward no later than two weeks into the marriage. I wasn't scared; I visited, brought her flowers, wrote her stories to read while she was recovering, all that good stuff. When she got out, she downed a bottle of Xanax to force me to stay the night with her when I was supposed to have other plans - lest she fall asleep and never wake up without anyone to help her.
This person no longer exists. I'm not going to judge all women based on this one bad experience I've had, however. I realize that she is not representative and that I simply didn't know her. I would ask that the females here do the same. It may be unfortunate that you've had bad experiences with the men you've been with, but you know what? You picked the damn guy. There are better men out there, and you settled. You blinded yourself to the true nature of your partner and you paid the price. I won't judge you because I've done the same. It is the fault of no one on this forum and it gives you no probable cause for developing needless prejudices.
I'd still like to marry someday, though certainly not anytime soon. Mouse is right to say that many of us are not exactly in the most stable situation, whether it be financially or simply emotionally. Personally, I'm still in school and I'm not even certain of what state I'll be living in next year. Doesn't make me afraid of committment, intimacy, or any of that. Just means that now is not the time. Que sera, sera . . .
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Originally posted by loseyourname All the females here seem to think that mistreatment in a relationship is solely the domain of the other sex. Violette said it was a proven fact that married men are happier than those who are unmarried. That very strongly depends on who you are married to. I used to be married, and the woman was a terror - a social worker, no less. She was committed to a psych ward no later than two weeks into the marriage. I wasn't scared; I visited, brought her flowers, wrote her stories to read while she was recovering, all that good stuff. When she got out, she downed a bottle of Xanax to force me to stay the night with her when I was supposed to have other plans - lest she fall asleep and never wake up without anyone to help her.
This person no longer exists. I'm not going to judge all women based on this one bad experience I've had, however. I realize that she is not representative and that I simply didn't know her. I would ask that the females here do the same. It may be unfortunate that you've had bad experiences with the men you've been with, but you know what? You picked the damn guy. There are better men out there, and you settled. You blinded yourself to the true nature of your partner and you paid the price. I won't judge you because I've done the same. It is the fault of no one on this forum and it gives you no probable cause for developing needless prejudices.
I'd still like to marry someday, though certainly not anytime soon. Mouse is right to say that many of us are not exactly in the most stable situation, whether it be financially or simply emotionally. Personally, I'm still in school and I'm not even certain of what state I'll be living in next year. Doesn't make me afraid of committment, intimacy, or any of that. Just means that now is not the time. Que sera, sera . . .
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