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  • Re: does age matter?

    I would just meet different girls, you don't have to date them all. Talk to them, get to know them, see who they are. If they seem nice, date them for a while and see how things go.

    I made so many horrible desicions, I stressed over girls as if it was so important! I would overanalyze every word she said or I said. I would play it over and over in my head and say to myself, "God, why did I say that to her!!!"

    Then I met my girlfriend, we spoke for a month or so and got to know each other. By the time we went out for the first time, we really knew each other, we knew what to expect. It was pretty much understood we were going to stay together after the night was over.

    If I could give someone advice, I would tell them not to care so much about girls. Don't rush into dating, first speak to them and get to know them. If they act like they're too good for you, or don't give you the right respect, then DO NOT PURSUE IT ANY FURTHER. When I used to talk to girls on the phone, they'd treat me horrible. They'd be "doing something" in the background, acting like they were too busy for me. I thought that was normal, little did I know they were little skanky players.

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    • Re: does age matter?

      Originally posted by Vigilante View Post
      I'm 21 and I like a girl who is going to be 16 in 7 months.

      Is this bad?

      I know that my cousin, her ex was 10 years older then her, but she is over 25.

      So, it isn't a big deal if you're both over 18 or 21, but if someone is, then its wrong?
      I was going to say, what can a 21 year have in common with a 15 year old, but I've changed my mind after I've reviewed some of your other posts and threads. Personally, I think it's perfectly ok for you to date her.

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      • Re: does age matter?

        Originally posted by One-Way View Post
        They'd be "doing something" in the background, acting like they were too busy for me. I thought that was normal, little did I know they were little skanky players.
        I tend to make omelets when I am talking to a guy. Is that terrible? I always thought that it was a good way to do something productive when I am on the phone, I had no idea it can be interpreted as a skanky player move. Thanks One-Way, who knew that there was more than one-way to interpret things.

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        • Re: does age matter?

          Originally posted by One-Way View Post
          I would just meet different girls, you don't have to date them all. Talk to them, get to know them, see who they are. If they seem nice, date them for a while and see how things go.

          I made so many horrible desicions, I stressed over girls as if it was so important! I would overanalyze every word she said or I said. I would play it over and over in my head and say to myself, "God, why did I say that to her!!!"

          Then I met my girlfriend, we spoke for a month or so and got to know each other. By the time we went out for the first time, we really knew each other, we knew what to expect. It was pretty much understood we were going to stay together after the night was over.

          If I could give someone advice, I would tell them not to care so much about girls. Don't rush into dating, first speak to them and get to know them. If they act like they're too good for you, or don't give you the right respect, then DO NOT PURSUE IT ANY FURTHER. When I used to talk to girls on the phone, they'd treat me horrible. They'd be "doing something" in the background, acting like they were too busy for me. I thought that was normal, little did I know they were little skanky players.
          OMGOSH! ONE WAY! I COMPLETELY FEEL AND GET YOU FOOL!

          I will start talking to girls. Not date, but just talk. I don't even know a lot of Armenian Girls. I only know like....2 or 3. 1 of em is that girl I talk to now, the other girl I don't like her anymore [physically or emotionally] and we haven't talked in months. But I will def take up your advice and start talking to more girls. But its easier said then done. Finding good Armenian Girls are hard, its not the easiest thing to do these days....

          Dude, I would stress over girls and think that I HAVE TO have a gf, and I would overanalyze everything too! I'm like the jealous type, so if she says something, I would react in a way as if I'm with the girl and just get all hurt or something. I tend to give up my heart real fast too! Its like I see a girl I like, and its like, I get too attached too fast, just cause I don't wanna lose em. Like I said, its hard for a guy like me, in the city I live in [which is near where you live] to find a good Armenian Girl when most of them care for either 1. looks or 2. money. So my question to them is. Where's the love?

          Dude! I used to talk to girls on the phone too, and they would be doing other stuff, or talking to other girls and would hardly talk to me. But we would be on the phone for a few mins/hours. They were playin me?! Man. I'm glad that I don't do that xxxx anymore.

          But just like you said, I will talk to girls more, and get to know girls. And if I see a girl that treats other people like xxxx, or talks behind peoples backs, or cares for money or for looks, then I won't waste my time on them, cause they're showing their true colors, and that color is called WH0RE.

          But yeah dude. I'm sorry for writing a lot, and I got your 4 part message, and I haven't read it yet, but as soon as I do, I will reply to it. I'm kind of cleaning my room and re arranging everything, so yeah.

          Thanks for the advice though.

          =]

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          • Re: does age matter?

            Originally posted by Inthemood View Post
            I was going to say, what can a 21 year have in common with a 15 year old, but I've changed my mind after I've reviewed some of your other posts and threads. Personally, I think it's perfectly ok for you to date her.
            Lol, well I'm glad I got your approval.

            Now All i gotta do is the get the approval of her, her parents, her friends, my parens and my friends....damn this is gonna be hard, lol.

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            • Re: does age matter?

              Originally posted by Inthemood View Post
              I tend to make omelets when I am talking to a guy. Is that terrible? I always thought that it was a good way to do something productive when I am on the phone, I had no idea it can be interpreted as a skanky player move. Thanks One-Way, who knew that there was more than one-way to interpret things.
              I'm not talking about a simple task such as that. I'm talking, yelling in the background and overexaggerating so she seems like she's too cool for me.

              How about shut up, okay? Stop trying to pick fights.

              Originally posted by Vigilante View Post
              OMGOSH! ONE WAY! I COMPLETELY FEEL AND GET YOU FOOL!

              I will start talking to girls. Not date, but just talk. I don't even know a lot of Armenian Girls. I only know like....2 or 3. 1 of em is that girl I talk to now, the other girl I don't like her anymore [physically or emotionally] and we haven't talked in months. But I will def take up your advice and start talking to more girls. But its easier said then done. Finding good Armenian Girls are hard, its not the easiest thing to do these days....

              Dude, I would stress over girls and think that I HAVE TO have a gf, and I would overanalyze everything too! I'm like the jealous type, so if she says something, I would react in a way as if I'm with the girl and just get all hurt or something. I tend to give up my heart real fast too! Its like I see a girl I like, and its like, I get too attached too fast, just cause I don't wanna lose em. Like I said, its hard for a guy like me, in the city I live in [which is near where you live] to find a good Armenian Girl when most of them care for either 1. looks or 2. money. So my question to them is. Where's the love?

              Dude! I used to talk to girls on the phone too, and they would be doing other stuff, or talking to other girls and would hardly talk to me. But we would be on the phone for a few mins/hours. They were playin me?! Man. I'm glad that I don't do that xxxx anymore.

              But just like you said, I will talk to girls more, and get to know girls. And if I see a girl that treats other people like xxxx, or talks behind peoples backs, or cares for money or for looks, then I won't waste my time on them, cause they're showing their true colors, and that color is called WH0RE.

              But yeah dude. I'm sorry for writing a lot, and I got your 4 part message, and I haven't read it yet, but as soon as I do, I will reply to it. I'm kind of cleaning my room and re arranging everything, so yeah.

              Thanks for the advice though.

              =]
              Read the PM, then we'll talk.

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              • Re: does age matter?

                By the way, Inthemood, I suggest you seriously stop. All you do is quote me and try to insult me. You know what I meant by my post and if you didn't, it's because you are STUUUUUPID.

                I don't wanna see you get banned. You potential.

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                • Re: does age matter?

                  Ok, I know you're a guy One-Way, but wtf is inthemood?

                  I read a post saying that inthemood talks to guys on the phone and makes omelets, so i assume she's a girl.

                  But then i read a post saying that inthemood is the guy that likes benzes, so i assume he's a guy.

                  But then i read a post saying that inthemood really likes me, so i assume he's gay.

                  Never have I been confused like this before. lol.

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                  • Re: does age matter?

                    Originally posted by Vigilante View Post
                    Ok, I know you're a guy One-Way, but wtf is inthemood?

                    I read a post saying that inthemood talks to guys on the phone and makes omelets, so i assume she's a girl.

                    But then i read a post saying that inthemood is the guy that likes benzes, so i assume he's a guy.

                    But then i read a post saying that inthemood really likes me, so i assume he's gay.

                    Never have I been confused like this before. lol.
                    Which can only mean she is a girl.

                    Which confirms all girls do is confuse you.

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                    • Re: does age matter?

                      Originally posted by Vigilante View Post
                      Ok, I know you're a guy One-Way, but wtf is inthemood?

                      I read a post saying that inthemood talks to guys on the phone and makes omelets, so i assume she's a girl.

                      But then i read a post saying that inthemood is the guy that likes benzes, so i assume he's a guy.

                      But then i read a post saying that inthemood really likes me, so i assume he's gay.

                      Never have I been confused like this before. lol.
                      Right now, a wave of happiness has temporarily swept over me. It almost made me smile.

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