does age matter?

[Blazay]

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im talking to some girl whos 25 and im 19, and apparently she cant get over it. I look older then her, party less then her, etc.. just kills me.. shes absouloutley beautiful tho.. i dont think age should matter at all. It all depends on how true somebody is, and how strong their connection is.

[jgk3]

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I've heard of stories where men who have wives who are a few years older than them would lie about their age, pretending that they were older, and revealed their true age once they felt the relationship was solid enough not to scare the girl away, sometimes they'd even wait till after marriage, heh heh.

[Sip]

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im talking to some girl whos 25 and im 19, and apparently she cant get over it. I look older then her, party less then her, etc.. just kills me.. shes absouloutley beautiful tho.. i dont think age should matter at all. It all depends on how true somebody is, and how strong their connection is.

Wait till she's like 40 and you're 34. She'll be ALL over you in a second.

[MrHyeSev]

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LOL Sip

[Dallas4147]

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I've heard of stories where men who have wives who are a few years older than them would lie about their age, pretending that they were older, and revealed their true age once they felt the relationship was solid enough not to scare the girl away, sometimes they'd even wait till after marriage, heh heh.

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Maybe I can answer some of these questions in that I'm married to a "mail order bride" that is 25 years my junior and we are extremely happy. Here are some tips;

1. If you pursue a woman and all you have to offer is "I'm an American and I'm sure you want to come live in the USA" OR "I have money and I'm sure you want some" you will set yourself up for failure or attract the gold digger you deserve. (And it doesn't matter if it is a USA woman or a foreign woman).

2. If you are willing to show and tell a woman that you are after love and willing to give love then you will be astounded at the beautiful foreign women that will give you a shot. Most of these foreign women want family and to be shown love. They could care less about your bank account, your home or your new car. So dont even mention those things and just focus on being a gentlemen.

3. Now for you skeptics if you are worried about your "money" do a pre-nup, if you are worried about compatability then have both of you take the Kiersey Compatability Exam and finally if you are worried about this beautiful "10" being crazy (because after all she is dating you) than have her take the MMPI. If she takes these exams it will tell you a lot about her and help you in the future. For example in my situation I learned that we were compatable based on the Kiersey exam and from the MMPI I learned that she is/was a logial thinker. As a result we never fight because I know that wont win the arguement but if I present information and back off she will form an opinion on the information I give her and form her own opinion (if it doesn't go my way then maybe my opinion was wrong?_)

For me being married to a mail order bride has made me the happiest man in the world. Please contact me and I'll be glad to share any information I have on immigration process, trips to the Ukraine or anything else. Just ask.


Finally, I would suggest if you are serious that you go with a reputable company that will give you one on one help. For me that was http://lovedbyher.com

[MrHyeSev]

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Sip ypu love people like Dallas huh that have 1 post & suddenly go away for ever LOL.

[Dallas4147]

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Age differences is both cultural and individual. My wife comes from a country where at my age men have one foot in the grave. At 27 women are old spinsters if they are not married and at 55 they are retired (if not dead already).

As a result the health and the activity of the person determine age. Only in America do we get hung up on "age differences". If you and your spouse/girlfriend love each other to heck with everyone else.

I had a old boss that was 43 and his wife was 72. When I first thought of it (back in the day) it kind of grossed me out but when I saw how good they were together and how much they cared for each other . . . .

Either we die and go to a cold grave and then who cares what age differencees there were or we die and live eternally and then age differences mean nothing anyway.

Follow your heart while it is still beating. Once it stops nothing is going to matter and nobody is going to care (except possibly you:-)

[Tres Bien]

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What I hate are men that have reached the age where they are expected to get married and settle down. I had a offer of marriage by this armenian guy who was i found out was in his middle 30-ies.

After only 2 weeks had passed he asked for my hand in an email Talk about beeing desperate! I was thinking, are their any other girls alive or am i the only one?And he thought it was ok that he was more than 10 years older than me...Till this day I can't believe that the guy had no sense whatsoever of sensitivity
It's funny as soon as they found someone who is armenian they think that its ok to go right ahead and conquer.

[One-Way]

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To: [Insert e-mail address]

Subject: Question

Message: I was wondering if you would marry me? Please e-mail me back soon!

[Anonymouse]

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If One-way was a chick, I'd totally private message him asking if she would marry me.

Only if you were a chick One-way. Too bad.