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Are Armenian women handicapped because of their upbringing?

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  • #21
    Re: Are Armenian women handicapped because of their upbringing?

    Now about our Armenian men, who have been very good breadwinners, family figures and proud fathers. Proud to keep their families in good standing and seeing that their children are safe and are not living promiscuous lives; but staying good and descent. That their children are doing well in school. Armenian fathers are very protective towards their offsprings, they are loving papas and support their children and love them very much. Some unfortunately I heard in Armenia who drink and then they hurt their wives at times; but I hope and hope that it has subsided and it's in the minority cases. However in general, Armenian men are very protective and good family providers and fathers.

    Btw; forgive me for also speaking about our Armenian men in here when the subject was about our women. However I was compelled to also speak about our mighty Armenian men.
    Thank you Anoush

    And the main reason men drink and all is because of the gov. I've explained why on countless occasions. The reason Armenia is in it's current state is because of the gov.

    And Kattie, when you come to Yerevan, I'll pick you up in Zvartnots and then we'll go see what the girls in Armenia are like. What your saying is right when your talking about a small minority and IF there are any problems you mentioned, it's because of the gov.
    THE ROAD TO FREEDOM AND JUSTICE IS A LONG ONE!

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    • #22
      Re: Are Armenian women handicapped because of their upbringing?

      I am an old woman, born in France in1925, from armenian parents. We lived in a house of refugees
      60 families, all survivors of genocide. All Armenians. When we were children we used to play together,
      boys and girls, in the garden behind the house, we were not allowed to go in the street.
      But when I was 12, my mother said to me : now you cannot play with boys.
      I went to French school. I worked very well at school. As my father died young , I was the eldest and had to work. My aunt did not want her daughters work outside, they had to work at home. I found jobs in offices.
      All the Armenian young men of the house married French girls, because they thought we were old minded.
      We were half old minded, and half influenced by our French education at school.
      One of my French colleague’s was delighted to meet me, as I was serious.
      His parents first were disappointed, as they wanted a French daughter –in-law from their town. But they changed quickly their mind when they knew me and my family. My husband always loved me.

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      • #23
        Re: Are Armenian women handicapped because of their upbringing?

        Thank you for a most eloquent slice of life.
        "All truth passes through three stages:
        First, it is ridiculed;
        Second, it is violently opposed; and
        Third, it is accepted as self-evident."

        Arthur Schopenhauer (1788-1860)

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        • #24
          Re: Are Armenian women handicapped because of their upbringing?

          Wow I am not sure if I should even start to respond to one of these thread topics again...remembers last year and the muffin postings...BUT man do I want to.

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          • #25
            Re: Are Armenian women handicapped because of their upbringing?

            [quote]I am an old woman, born in France in1925, from armenian parents. We lived in a house of refugees 60 families, all survivors of genocide. All Armenians. When we were children we used to play together, boys and girls, in the garden behind the house, we were not allowed to go in the street. But when I was 12, my mother said to me : now you cannot play with boys. I went to French school. I worked very well at school. As my father died young , I was the eldest and had to work. My aunt did not want her daughters work outside, they had to work at home. I found jobs in offices. All the Armenian young men of the house married French girls, because they thought we were old minded. We were half old minded, and half influenced by our French education at school. One of my French colleague’s was delighted to meet me, as I was serious.
            His parents first were disappointed, as they wanted a French daughter –in-law from their town. But they changed quickly their mind when they knew me and my family. My husband always loved me.[quote/]

            Madam, it is nothing more or less then an honor to have you with us here. Thank you for your post .

            Regarding being "old minded", could someone please tell me what that means? If someone has boundaries, respects tradition, and lives like a normal person rather then a fool, why is he/she "old minded"? I get so pissed when I hear this. Who the hell came up with that phrase anyways? I'd rather be "old minded" then "DEAD minded" like most in the US!
            THE ROAD TO FREEDOM AND JUSTICE IS A LONG ONE!

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            • #26
              Re: Are Armenian women handicapped because of their upbringing?

              Kiffer it's so nice to hear your life story. We love you to have you hear and thank you for this story.

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              • #27
                Re: Are Armenian women handicapped because of their upbringing?

                Originally posted by Saco View Post

                Regarding being "old minded", could someone please tell me what that means? If someone has boundaries, respects tradition, and lives like a normal person rather then a fool, why is he/she "old minded"? I get so pissed when I hear this. Who the hell came up with that phrase anyways?I'd rather be "old minded" then "DEAD minded" like most in the US!
                You are dead right!

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                • #28
                  Re: Are Armenian women handicapped because of their upbringing?

                  Thanks Anoush jan!
                  THE ROAD TO FREEDOM AND JUSTICE IS A LONG ONE!

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                  • #29
                    Re: Are Armenian women handicapped because of their upbringing?

                    Originally posted by Saco View Post

                    And the main reason men drink and all is because of the gov.

                    What your saying is right when your talking about a small minority and IF there are any problems you mentioned, it's because of the gov.
                    Saco, are you kidding me? I mean seriously, what has it got to do with the government??

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                    • #30
                      Re: Are Armenian women handicapped because of their upbringing?

                      Saco, are you kidding me? I mean seriously, what has it got to do with the government??
                      *sigh* Please don't ask me to answer that, Lucin jan. I've answered it like 8 times already in two days, lol. When you come here, you'll understand. I don't say anything without knowing what I'm talking about. I'm not saying we should COMPLETELY blame the gov. but they have a big share of blame on their shoulders. A very big share.

                      Briefly said, they don't allow the Armenian people to BREATHE properly. The gov. emotionally breaks our people down in many ways so the drinking naturally increases.

                      ...Our people have lost their patience and think about only one thing most of the time...how to find food so that their families can survive. They don't have time to think about anything else and get angry very easily. It's a very difficult situation and I blame the gov. mostly. I have my reasons and I've lived here for many years so you can more or less trust me...

                      You have to go deep into our current situation to understand why so many things happen every day so don't look at what I say in such a primitive way.
                      Last edited by Sako; 05-04-2009, 10:39 AM.
                      THE ROAD TO FREEDOM AND JUSTICE IS A LONG ONE!

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