Re: Are Armenian women handicapped because of their upbringing?
Thank you Lord for creating this wise being so that he could one day enter these forums and say this. This sums everything up. I think we know now what "tradition" or "culture" spoils women around the world!
You know what you can hear a lot of the time here in Yerevan? "Levi gunank, tugherk?" There are so many gorgeous creatures here that men have completely lost themselves. They treat them like toys though instead of treating them the way they deserve to be treated. I don't know what to say. I got out of one of my jobs because of this. It wasn't the only reason but it was one of them. One of my bosses (I used to be the lead designer for a press here in Yerevan) was a complete dumbass ... about 25 years old. He was smart but he treated girls like toys. Sex was on his mind every xxxxing day. He brought pictures of his girlfriends from time to time and one day I saw a picture of a 14 year old on his computer screen by accident. I thought this was his relative, lol. I was wrong....he xxxxed her too. It's not surprising. When this guy was fifteen, he screwed his teacher in the living room while her 5 year old was sleeping in the other room. What do you expect from a person like this. Love? lol. Before and after I saw that 14 year old, I used to have serious discussions with him from time to time when I had some time on my hands, related to marriage, sex, etc. He knew I was serious and teased me sometimes when I talked about proper behavior, marriage, love, etc. He used to say "es vor tivna" or basically times have changed. My views never changed though even a bit and he realized that I could change him but he couldn't change me. That's the kind of discipline that I've gone through and I owe it only to my parents. Anyways, one day, I heard him speak about his girlfriend who he wanted to marry. I asked him if he would stop what he was doing and you know what he said? He said that he wouldn't. Then I asked how his wife would feel if she found out and he said that she's just a women and that she will never find out.....
I rest me case!
Honey, what do you think we've been doing here all this time?
I think you just made an important discovery .........
Notice the entire time I've been talking about assimilation of cultures. And this is not our Armenian culture but the culture that men have adapted from America, Russia, Europe, etc. which are the dominant cultures surrounding our communties.
Other women. Armenian men just like odar men they screw their Armenian women or lovers royally by sleeping with whomever they come across to (other Armenian women or other odar women). I hear it and I notice it even on these so called Armenian Forums. I have noticed enough to know it.
I rest me case!
Now, I'm not saying that there are no such women with those characteristic amongst us but it'd be really good if we sometimes were more open, self-aware, conscious, self-critical and less self-absorbed and self-assured…
So some are not repressed, they simply do not have that thing called charm.
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