Who is the Armenian girl that our guys strive to marry.

[KanadaHye]

Re: Who is the Armenian girl that our guys strive to marry.

I infer that if I was in Armenia I probably wouldn't care but seeing that her kids have no relation to me culturally, my time and frustration is really going to waste, lol.

[levon]

Re: Who is the Armenian girl that our guys strive to marry.

What if you are not able to make enough money on your own? Or if the woman's husband died or divorced her? Or if the couple do not want to have kids yet? Not letting women work is ridiculous, and many women in Armenia work, even in high positions such as government. We are not a Muslim society.

Damn mos, way to pull a Haykakan.

[KanadaHye]

Re: Who is the Armenian girl that our guys strive to marry.

I'm not saying women SHOULDN'T work. I'm saying they should put their kids before their career and if one is interfering with the other than adjustments need to be made. However, once somebody see's $$, all judgment seems to be thrown out of the window. Anyways, the only reason she's making ends meet is because she's in debt. The day care costs and her transportation costs to get to work is more than she gets paid.

[Siggie]

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Who gives a f&ck. That's the wrong question. The correct question is why would an Armenian man worry about what women want him to be? Women need men more than they make known. Under the facade of "doing so much for you" lies the blatantly obvious truth, which is that women need men for sustenance, for protection, for feeling sexy, for exploitation, for dumping responsibility, for fixing their problems, etc. All men need women for is sex and kids. The first you can get without marriage, so if all a man needs is kids, why the f&ck bother figuring out what women want?

Why would men care about what women want? Because if you have that sort of attitude, you'll end up taking whoever will have you. Don't forget women have a choice too. You don't just club one over the head and drag her home. I would hope there's more thought in selecting a lifelong companion and the person who will not only have your kids, but more importantly (though you completely ignored this fact), raise them.

Reminder: If you would like to talk about women in the workforce, please do it in this thread where this same discussion was had.

[KanadaHye]

Re: Who is the Armenian girl that our guys strive to marry.

You don't just club one over the head and drag her home.

Of course not. You get her drunk first.

[Mos]

Re: Who is the Armenian girl that our guys strive to marry.

I infer that if I was in Armenia I probably wouldn't care but seeing that her kids have no relation to me culturally, my time and frustration is really going to waste, lol.

Please elaborate, What you mean kids have no relation to you culturally? I still don't see how you infer that in all of society people expect men to work 110% but when it comes to women, all it matters that they show up.

Damn mos, way to pull a Haykakan.

What are you getting at?

[levon]

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Why would men care about what women want? Because if you have that sort of attitude, you'll end up taking whoever will have you.

Nah, that's only true for average men who don't have much ambition and will remain average their whole life. Regardless of how much they care about what women want, they'll always end up taking whoever will have them.

I would hope there's more thought in selecting a lifelong companion and the person who will not only have your kids, but more importantly (though you completely ignored this fact), raise them.

Obviously there is, but you missed the point. Rather than concentrating on what women want, it's much better for a man to spend time furthering his career. If he wants kids, the pool of eligible women (meaning young, hot and not yet retarded from feminism) is larger than when he's a beggar trying desperately to do everything he can to please that one woman in his life hoping that she will choose him.

[KanadaHye]

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Please elaborate, What you mean kids have no relation to you culturally? I still don't see how you infer that in all of society people expect men to work 110% but when it comes to women, all it matters that they show up.

I didn't say all. From my experience and in my particular field, I've found that there are higher standards held for men than women. Especially for women with children, there are needs that need to be catered to. Their travel is restricted. They usually avoid doing any hands on work. They are constantly taking days off because their kids are sick. They can't work overtime, etc. Men on the other hand are expected to travel on short notice. Accept any overtime that is needed to get the job done, etc. None of this should come as a shock... these are the usual issues that have to be dealt with in a society where families are trying to juggle everything on a day to day basis. This is why so many marriages fail.

I mean as a society, it's expected that we help each other out... you know, watch each other's kids, help out when you can, etc. However when it comes to survival (that IS what life is about) in a multicultural society, it's all for one and one for all. I shouldn't be expected to cover for someone because they aren't reliable but since I work for a corporation, it is what it is.

[Tali]

Re: Who is the Armenian girl that our guys strive to marry.

google translate for armenian is terrible, it almost never translates a sentence correctly except if it's a really simple sentence like, "the tree is big"

somehow that doesn't surprise me...

what did the phrase mean? how do i say it? i assume it's eastern armenian, right?

[Odar]

Re: Who is the Armenian girl that our guys strive to marry.

Maybe in an office people can just "show up", but if you work in a hospital or in a factory (I should better say a sweatshop), there's no bloody way you can do it.

Yes, I'm a feminist who worked her ass off for an average 10 hours a day in a factory like a man for 10 years, and proud of that.