Armenian and gay?

[lbc213hc]

i'm just curious what you think of those who marry and have kids just to try and 'fit in' societal expectations and make the parents/family happy; what do you think is the most likely outcome then? living a hetero- life but being deeply depressed and restless on the inside by their homo- ideations?

Really, I dont know who is to blame? Do we blame the weak gays who are afraid of confronting society? or do we blame our society in making a gay mans life hell?

You know, part of the reason why gays are so promiscuous is because the straight world has made them to be. Gays are not allowed to go to prom, gays are not viewed as people that can have long term relationships and marry, gays are not viewed as positive role models for children. The straight world keeps them down. It's sad. How's a young gay person like me supposed to feel supported in this world - especially being an armenian. We dont have social means to a positive existence. Gays remain to be considered a 'dirty' subculture because the straight world keeps pushing that image. And ignorance spreads like wildwife. Like I said before, some minds are so weak that they build aggression handed down from them without realizing why. They've just been conditioned to hate.

[spiral]

Being gay and Armenian...tough tough..

Che-Ka and Ibc, how did family react when they found out, im curious?

[Che_Ka]

spiral: They don't know yet. lol They're actually dealing with a sibling of mine who just came out; they're having a difficult time, but much better than I anticipated that they'd react. I actually had no clue my sister was gay too -- a shocker to me! She never told me, I never told her. Although I think she knows about me. Ohh dear, it's a mess!!

I always thought being gay was part-genetic, part-environmental. But after I found out about my sister, I'm becoming a supporter of the gene theory.

[lbc213hc]

hmmm

when i first hinted to it, my mother quickly said 'BE QUIET! Stop talking nonsense.' So she didnt take well to it. so I backed off. I thought that she would be supportive, but I suddenly second guessed what I was doing.

All hell broke lose when I couldnt take it anymore, and I told them. My father started crying. My brother started crying. My mom and my sister were hitting me. It was really bad for a long time, but things have changed now. They still support me. But its different. I cannot take my partner to any family function or if I have a friend they automatically assume he's a lover. They still try to introduce me to a girl. They dont really talk too much about it, especially my father. But they always remind me that they love me.

[hyebruin]

Really, I dont know who is to blame? Do we blame the weak gays who are afraid of confronting society? or do we blame our society in making a gay mans life hell?

You know, part of the reason why gays are so promiscuous is because the straight world has made them to be. Gays are not allowed to go to prom, gays are not viewed as people that can have long term relationships and marry, gays are not viewed as positive role models for children. The straight world keeps them down. It's sad. How's a young gay person like me supposed to feel supported in this world - especially being an armenian. We dont have social means to a positive existence. Gays remain to be considered a 'dirty' subculture because the straight world keeps pushing that image. And ignorance spreads like wildwife. Like I said before, some minds are so weak that they build aggression handed down from them without realizing why. They've just been conditioned to hate.

haha, you didn't really answer my question, but that's ok

[Anonymouse]

What a gay thread.

[LadySilver]

What about lesbians or bisexuals? Do you guys think they are "wrong" also or is that alright as some people say?

[Anonymouse]

What about lesbians or bisexuals? Do you guys think they are "wrong" also or is that alright as some people say?

That all depends on if you use unleaded fuel.

[Siamanto]

What about lesbians or bisexuals? Do you guys think they are "wrong" also or is that alright as some people say?

That all depends on if you use unleaded fuel.

Anonymouse,
I'll have to disagree: that is at best a half-truth!
I have a lesbian friend who uses unleaded fuel and I still think that she's wrong: she should be sleeping with me instead of her lesbian friend!

But, that may be true of bisexuals!

[Anonymouse]

Anonymouse,
I'll have to disagree: that is at best a half-truth!
I have a lesbian friend who uses unleaded fuel and I still think that she's wrong: she should be sleeping with me instead of her lesbian friend!

But, that may be true of bisexuals!

You should tell her to use unleaded plus then.