Finding happiness in yourself? Others? Etc... (Split from Quarterlife Crisis)

[omniscient]

that might be working for you. which would definitely mean you're a weak person. life would suck if you didn't have your friend?
you are one dependant being. the epitomy of insecurity.
at least don't give it to people as an advice.
yes having friends and family is a good thing. but your happiness shouldn't in any way depend on them. listen now or you'll regret it later!
if you keep goin on like this...I know for a fact you're getting hurt soon.
cheers

I haven't read anyone elses post's yet or responses in this thread but what you just said is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Probably one of the all time stupidest things I've ever heard a human being say. You're a REBEL and independant and happy, everyone leave this person alone.

[Anushik]

WHATEVER..... can we get on with the damn thread rather than focusing on one person's remark?

Damn.... this always happens and it kills the thread and other potential "relevant" conversations pertaining to the thread.

Anyways, TO ANSWER THE TOPIC OF THE THREAD.....Life is generally a boring place, it's up to us to fill it up and make it interesting. Whether it's DEPENDING on your friends to do that or your INDEPENDENT and you keep busy yourself, you do whatever it takes to make life a place interesting enough for you to continue on with.

If you're used to going a certain pattern in life, switch it up and do something different so you have a challenge or interest to look forward to.

I agree with every single word (from the biggining to the end)...

[Anushik]

First- That one person's remark is what made the thread.

Second- No the WORLD is not a boring place. Life is extremely interesting. People sometimes tend to be boring.

YOUR WORLD is not boring... you made your life interesting... that's the point; you make your life either the most boring or the most interesting stage of your being... I love life and also think that it's interesting, but there can be something, which is interesting for me, but it can be extrimely borring for you...

[Anonymouse]

If life is a boring place, I suggest people stop complaining and go to the nearest gun shop. Purchase a gun. Purchase bullets. Load the bullets into the gun. Then point the gun into your mouth. While pointing it, carefully adjust your hand so that it is by the trigger with your finger ready to pull. Take one nice breath, pull the trigger, and life will be boring no longer. I hope this helps.

[HyeJinx1984]

It is more than possible to find happiness with yourself, but it's my experience that a good woman can speed up productivity as well as build morale in a man. Can't pin point exactly why, but it tends to motivate people to work harder, so having a good companion is one key to sucess. Of course the opposite is true too, a bad woman can cause you to crumble. Gotta be picky.

[ckBejug]

I'm not talkin about Patlajan's remark.... I'm talkin about gaucho's remark.

I'm only going to say this once and this regards to many of the threads I see here, because all I see are stupid pointless arguments in many of the recent threads that always end up back at square one.

Everyone keeps harping on the remark one person said that isn't the first post in the thread and is kinda off topic and then the others response and then a counter response and on and on and on....... GET OVER IT. So many threads get their topics changed and either closed or killed off because of a result of who's got the smartest answer to one person's ignorance.

I agree with every single word (from the biggining to the end)...

If you hadn't noticed, this isn't Patlajans thread. This is a spawn of that thread, a completely different thread directly regarding the point gaucho brought up about being dependant on others. Look at the topic. Perhaps you need to take another look at the first page of this topic. I'm sick of talking about baseless and meaningless things, it's about time something of substance came along, whether or not arguments are ensuing as a result is just one of the perks of talking about something that actually matters.

[Anushik]

If life is a boring place, I suggest people stop complaining and go to the nearest gun shop. Purchase a gun. Purchase bullets. Load the bullets into the gun. Then point the gun into your mouth. While pointing it, carefully adjust your hand so that it is by the trigger with your finger ready to pull. Take one nice breath, pull the trigger, and life will be boring no longer. I hope this helps.

this is soooooooooooooooo funy...

[Anushik]

If you hadn't noticed, this isn't Patlajans thread. This is a spawn of that thread, a completely different thread directly regarding the point gaucho brought up about being dependant on others. Look at the topic. Perhaps you need to take another look at the first page of this topic. I'm sick of talking about baseless and meaningless things, it's about time something of substance came along, whether or not arguments are ensuing as a result is just one of the perks of talking about something that actually matters.

I just expressed my opinion... now about thread... I don't know if I understood the topic correct, but I think this is about what makes us happy, am I right? Ok, if so, I'm happy because I achieved something in my life, because I have great parents, I have goals, I have great friends (I think guaco, that this is one of the most important components of happy life... if you don't have friends, you are the worst person in the world... having friend doesn't mean that you are weak, sometimes silence of good friend can help you soooooooooooooooooooooo much... )... But I think that for complete happiness, you should love and be loved... this is what happiness for me...

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

I always thought goucho was a guy

She's lesbian in denial.

[Genuine_Stud]

If you hadn't noticed, this isn't Patlajans thread. This is a spawn of that thread, a completely different thread directly regarding the point gaucho brought up about being dependant on others. Look at the topic. Perhaps you need to take another look at the first page of this topic. I'm sick of talking about baseless and meaningless things, it's about time something of substance came along, whether or not arguments are ensuing as a result is just one of the perks of talking about something that actually matters.

Gaucho brought up a good point, but all remarks are being based ON HER POINT, not the point Patlajan had made which created the topic of this thread. It went onto people arguing and calling each other names and assuming they are stupid and on and on and so on and so forth. Yeesh!

No to be anal or anything, but just look at the "What's wrong with non pure Armenians" thread which has soooo many pointless conversations going on without pertaining to the actual thread. All I know is that I don't have the time to argue over something stupid (such as one person's remark which is not even relevant to the topic of the thread) on an Internet forum. I'd rather take things loosely, have a good time, and learn other peoples' points of view to understand their way of thinking (by observing them), rather than PUSH MY POINT endlessly. But then again... that's just me.

So for those who want to keep arguing on gaucho's point... I say.. have fun.

In regards to the quarterlife crises thingy, this is an interesting concept that Patlajan brought up, because it is a trend in young adults who have started their career. Like I said before, it's up to us to make life fun to avoid suffering from this crisis.