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Finding happiness in yourself? Others? Etc... (Split from Quarterlife Crisis)

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  • #31
    Originally posted by Genuine_Stud
    Gaucho brought up a good point, but all remarks are being based ON HER POINT, not the point Patlajan had made which created the topic of this thread. It went onto people arguing and calling each other names and assuming they are stupid and on and on and so on and so forth. Yeesh!

    No to be anal or anything, but just look at the "What's wrong with non pure Armenians" thread which has soooo many pointless conversations going on without pertaining to the actual thread. All I know is that I don't have the time to argue over something stupid (such as one person's remark which is not even relevant to the topic of the thread) on an Internet forum. I'd rather take things loosely, have a good time, and learn other peoples' points of view to understand their way of thinking (by observing them), rather than PUSH MY POINT endlessly. But then again... that's just me.

    So for those who want to keep arguing on gaucho's point... I say.. have fun.

    In regards to the quarterlife crises thingy, this is an interesting concept that Patlajan brought up, because it is a trend in young adults who have started their career. Like I said before, it's up to us to make life fun to avoid suffering from this crisis.
    OMG, let me try to make this a little more clear. THIS THREAD has nothing to do with quareter life crises. I made a NEW thread, DIRECTLY RELATED TO GAUCHOS POST about friends, lack of friends, and how they should affect your life. THIS IS A NEW THREAD. Get it? If you want to reply to quarterlife crisis, go back to Pat's thread(Quarter Life Crisis), WHICH IS NOT THIS ONE. THIS THREAD, the spawn of Pat's thread that I made as a result of a comment by Gaucho that I wanted to reply to, regards the topic: Do you think it is being dependent on others to say life would suck without friends, or do you think friends add to the spice of life and make it all the better. CLEAR? Thanks!






    p.s. Are you one of the people who voted for Bush?
    Last edited by ckBejug; 11-05-2004, 09:31 AM.
    The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function. -- F. Scott Fitzgerald

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    • #32
      This thread has too much hostility. Forgiveness is necessary for finding happiness within yourself ( aside from the more obvious choice of actually buying a Happy Meal ). To master the art of apology is truly what it's about (I think "apology" means "the study of apples").
      Achkerov kute.

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      • #33
        Originally posted by gaucho
        that might be working for you. which would definitely mean you're a weak person. life would suck if you didn't have your friend?
        you are one dependant being. the epitomy of insecurity.
        at least don't give it to people as an advice.
        yes having friends and family is a good thing. but your happiness shouldn't in any way depend on them. listen now or you'll regret it later!
        if you keep goin on like this...I know for a fact you're getting hurt soon.
        cheers
        I didn't read the whole thread, but apparently this remark of yours has ruffled a few feathers. I'm not going to agree with you that a person is weak simply because she derives happiness from the consolation of friends - I say however you can get it, get it. I will agree, however, that happiness should not be dependent upon another person. I've lived my life thus far, and will continue to live it, operating on the basic principle that all people are replaceable and furthermore that any one person's feelings are the responsibility of that one person alone. I agree that all people need some form of social interaction to be happy - that's just inherent in the development of the human race as a social animal. I just think it's the fact that you have people around that's important, not that they be the same people from year to year. Anyway, carry on.

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        • #34
          Originally posted by gaucho
          that might be working for you. which would definitely mean you're a weak person. life would suck if you didn't have your friend?
          you are one dependant being. the epitomy of insecurity.
          at least don't give it to people as an advice.
          yes having friends and family is a good thing. but your happiness shouldn't in any way depend on them. listen now or you'll regret it later!
          if you keep goin on like this...I know for a fact you're getting hurt soon.
          cheers
          Wow, surely you know the answers to everything. Might you consider a degree in psychoanalyticaloctomy?
          Achkerov kute.

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