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  • Mos
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    Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

    Originally posted by retro View Post
    Your not established in any kind of a career at 22 and you need a certain amount of experience of life to be a good father. Otherwise you will make to many mistakes. Only stupid people get married and have kids in there 20's.
    Well when you finish your studies, given you finished them well, chances are you will enter some sort of job. It's not stupid to get married and have family in your early 20s. Majority of Armenia does that actually. Marriages from an earlier age, are more stable, and they set you on the right path early on. Family is one of the most important things in this life.

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  • retro
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    Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

    Originally posted by Mos View Post
    Well ideally, at 22 you finish your studies and go on to a job. Of course the best time to marry and have family is once you finish your studies and have a stable job.
    Your not established in any kind of a career at 22 and you need a certain amount of experience of life to be a good father. Otherwise you will make to many mistakes. Only stupid people get married and have kids in there 20's.

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  • Mos
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    Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

    Originally posted by Sip View Post
    22 is the best age to REALLY start going to school. But if you are stopping education at 22, it is the best time to live on your own ... travel around .. see the world ... give yourself a chance to find out what you really want to do with your life.

    Start a family at 22 broke and often completely inexperienced in what life really has to offer?
    Well ideally, at 22 you finish your studies and go on to a job. Of course the best time to marry and have family is once you finish your studies and have a stable job.

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  • retro
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    Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

    Originally posted by Sip View Post
    22 is the best age to REALLY start going to school. But if you are stopping education at 22, it is the best time to live on your own ... travel around .. see the world ... give yourself a chance to find out what you really want to do with your life.

    Start a family at 22 broke and often completely inexperienced in what life really has to offer?
    I agree, getting married and having kids young is a bad idea. He should wait at least another 5 years.

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  • retro
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    Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

    Originally posted by Momo View Post
    Hi, I'm 22 years old and I'm an Armenian. At the university I met a girl (latina). We've been together for almost 3 years and she has met my brother. She is willing to learn our languages and raise our childeren in an Armenian way. I'm just not sure my family will except her. She is very kind ans respectful. What do you think of all this?
    What are your family going to do? Disown you! They will come around. However your mother won't like any women than you bring home to meet her. That much I can promise you.

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  • Sip
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    Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

    22 is the best age to REALLY start going to school. But if you are stopping education at 22, it is the best time to live on your own ... travel around .. see the world ... give yourself a chance to find out what you really want to do with your life.

    Start a family at 22 broke and often completely inexperienced in what life really has to offer?

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  • Mos
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    Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

    Originally posted by Sip View Post
    Don't do it man ... you are 22. Why do you want to destroy your future with kids?
    around age 22 is the best age to start a family.

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  • Sip
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    Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

    Don't do it man ... you are 22. Why do you want to destroy your future with kids?

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  • Mos
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    Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

    Originally posted by Hyegirl View Post
    Do you feel highly out of place? Do you feel comfortable at Russian events? Why?
    I mean I might feel a bit more comfortable since there are some common Soviet elements in Armenian/Russian cultures, but beyond that no. I guess if as a foreigner you grew up in Russia you might feel more comfortable. As you see, in the end, it all has to do with what culture you were raised in and thus that culture you will always connect the most to, while other cultures, for the most part, just feel out of place.

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  • Hyegirl
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    Re: Armenian with a not-Armenian girl

    Originally posted by Mos View Post
    Well, yes, I guess, I don't have a problem going to Russian events, but I won't ever feel or be Russian. I won't ever feel part of the Russian community or nation. (nor will they ever accept me as one)
    Do you feel highly out of place? Do you feel comfortable at Russian events? Why? How hard do think it is for that to change with someone?

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