Alright to be shy?

[!EEK]

Sorry for making HyeJynx-ish threads but it's really important for me..

Hey, I've got a really big and annoying problem: I'm too xxxxing shy!

I can't start conversation with anyone I don't know without turning red or at least having my hearth beat at 120pulses/seconds. When I tell the teacher why I did not finish my homework, I turn red-tomato even if my explanation is 100% true.
When affirming something that is true, altough it depends to whom I talk, I can't resist grinning!!
Unless I've had 2 glasses of J&B, I can't get to talk openly to a frikin stranger girl.
Oh and I forgot...Even if someone tells me "Whats your name", I can't prevent my red-ish look

Is it alright being shy? It sure is more dificult to live with it but what can I do? Does it fade with time or I will have to live with it all my life?









HELP ME

[Anonymouse]

Sorry for making HyeJynx-ish threads but it's really important for me..

Hey, I've got a really big and annoying problem: I'm too xxxxing shy!

I can't start conversation with anyone I don't know without turning red or at least having my hearth beat at 120pulses/seconds. When I tell the teacher why I did not finish my homework, I turn red-tomato even if my explanation is 100% true.
When affirming something that is true, altough it depends to whom I talk, I can't resist grinning!!
Unless I've had 2 glasses of J&B, I can't get to talk openly to a frikin stranger girl.
Oh and I forgot...Even if someone tells me "Whats your name", I can't prevent my red-ish look

Is it alright being shy? It sure is more dificult to live with it but what can I do? Does it fade with time or I will have to live with it all my life?

HELP ME

No! It's NEVAR alright to be shy, NEVAR EVAR! Chicks don't like shy dudes. See I had a problem of shyness too. But I got rid of it because it doesn't do you good, whether with chicks or in the business world. You gotta assert.

Of course I still have the "getting red" part as I'm like my dad, a natural redneck Armenian with green eyes. When I get stressed, angry, emotional, or what not, I get red. If I were at a police lineup, it would be obvious who stole the tootsie rolls from the 7-11 to feed the starving Gnomes.

But beyond that, don't be shy. You gotta have an idea of what your character is, don't you? You're not shy when you're with your friends are you? The key is to transport that comfort and confidence to the other arena of strangers and chicks and stuff. Go up to any chick at a party and tell them why it will never work out between you two and how she has to do a certain thing or two to improve your chances ( like how she can't wear that skirt with that top and how she needs less make up ). Haha, they eat that shyt up. Or just talk to them about how all you care about are gnomes and why she has to try reeeeal hard to replace gnomes for you to like her.

[!EEK]

No! It's NEVAR alright to be shy, NEVAR EVAR! Chicks don't like shy dudes. See I had a problem of shyness too. But I got rid of it because it doesn't do you good, whether with chicks or in the business world. You gotta assert.

Of course I still have the "getting red" part as I'm like my dad, a natural redneck Armenian with green eyes. When I get stressed, angry, emotional, or what not, I get red. If I were at a police lineup, it would be obvious who stole the tootsie rolls from the 7-11 to feed the starving Gnomes.

But beyond that, don't be shy. You gotta have an idea of what your character is, don't you? You're not shy when you're with your friends are you? The key is to transport that comfort and confidence to the other arena of strangers and chicks and stuff. Go up to any chick at a party and tell them why it will never work out between you two and how she has to do a certain thing or two to improve your chances. Haha. Or just talk to them about how all you care about are gnomes and why she has to try reeeeal hard to replace gnomes for you to like her.

Wow thanks Anony, it was the most helpful post you ever did for me at the most important time .

Anyway, with friends, not even close ones, I'm not embarassed of talking about anything. But as soon as they start asking me questions, ANY questions, and they tell me I'm getting red, well...I'm already red!

I think for professional life, I could handel it. I can stay firm but it's really about personal/everyday life. I really can't get to talk openly to anyone exept friends.

At first I tought it was ok, I thought that when growing up it'll slowly fade away but no, it even got more intense I must say It sux

[violette829]

I am not a shy person, so I wouldn't know how it feels to be one. I can, however, help you get over that VERY EASILY..it's just too bad you live in Belgium and are 6 years younger.

Just be more confident in your surroudings. Tell yourself that you're the best, and you know you're the best. Seriously, what's the worst that could happen? You're tall...act like it!!

[loseyourname]

No, it isn't all right to be shy, unless you're one of those chicks that only feigns shyness but is a real freak in bed. But you aren't a chick, so no, it isn't all right to be shy.

[!EEK]

I am not a shy person, so I wouldn't know how it feels to be one. I can, however, help you get over that VERY EASILY..it's just too bad you live in Belgium and are 6 years younger.

Just be more confident in your surroudings. Tell yourself that you're the best, and you know you're the best. Seriously, what's the worst that could happen? You're tall...act like it!!

But I'm not the best ....pffff if I act what I am not, it'll feel really wierd and it would really make it too difficult for me to handle.

It's so stupid it doesn't fade away with time! I'll probably die alone like those Star Trek fans

For when medical treatment against shyness?

[Sip]

It all starts with the avatar ... get rid of the pink worm with the white flag and get a confident gnome or a smurf.

[loseyourname]

But I'm not the best

Neither is she. She still manages to convince herself.

For when medical treatment against shyness?

Aintcha never heard of Paxil?

[xBaron Dants]

I'll probably die alone like those Star Trek fans

hahahahahahahahahahahahhahaha!!!!

Yea, you probably will die alone if you continue whining like this!

AMOT E DGHA!

[!EEK]

Aintcha never heard of Paxil?

oh oh!! Whats that!!