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  • #91
    Originally posted by Sev21
    A guy will never be a girls friend. The sex part will ALWAYS interfeer. I know exactly what a guy thinks when he wants to be a friend with some girl because i am a guy myself, duh. Heck, a good female friend of mine is cool... but i'd definately hit it.
    You likely feel this way becuase thus far in your life "sex" has always meant with a magazine and a hanky....

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    • #92
      Originally posted by winoman
      You likely feel this way becuase thus far in your life "sex" has always meant with a magazine and a hanky....
      You speak as if you are the authority on sex. This has alot of entertainment value.
      Achkerov kute.

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      • #93
        Originally posted by Anonymouse
        You speak as if you are the authority on sex. This has alot of entertainment value.
        Now thats funny - the biggest BSer on this forum trying to claim that someone else is posting as an authority on something when they are not - ha!

        And BTW I have no care what you think....

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        • #94
          ahhh i just remembered that song from long ago...'what the world needs is love, love sweet love, and not just for some, but for everyone...' la la la..la la la..la....la la la...la la...la la....

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          • #95
            Originally posted by winoman
            Now thats funny - the biggest BSer on this forum trying to claim that someone else is posting as an authority on something when they are not - ha!

            And BTW I have no care what you think....
            I have never BSed. The fact that you do care of what I think has entertainment value.
            Achkerov kute.

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            • #96
              Originally posted by Anonymouse
              I have never BSed. The fact that you do care of what I think has entertainment value.
              Yes of course - simple minds don't require much it seems...

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              • #97
                I can't believe I've never seen this thread. Well obviously I agree with the thread maker here. This is simple and everything you said Arman in your first post was word for word true. I know this because I have these exact same conversations with girls all the time before anything so I will get my point across. The 'ode to the nice guys' link should be in here as well since in my opinion it is somewhat related, and I can explain that if needed.

                Anyway, I hate how some of you girls think I would wanna smack you upside the head. Some of you even admitted to teasing or having fun with the guys, what is wrong with you people, do you guys get off on this stuff. My main point is this, the bottom line is if a guy and a girl are real good friends and both look good then why the f.uck don't you just be with one another. For the girls, if a guy is that great of a guy and is your good friend, then he is your good friend for a reason. He is trustworthy, caring, fun to be with, ... oh s.hit did I just name the things you want in a man. So boooottooooom line is if a person of the opposite sex is good enough to be a true friend than they are good enough to be more and should be more than that.

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                • #98
                  omniscent - I can hardly begin to address all the areas where your analysis falls short. All I can say is that you can only speak from your experience here and it seems to me that it has been limited. You also seem to have this problem of only thinking of women as sex objects. You say that you can't see how a man and a woman could be close and sharing and what not and not preceed to sex (good enough to be a true friend - good enough for sex etc). Well what can I say - its your deficiency really. I have several close female friends that I share much with and the issue of sex with them has never (seriously/realistically) been an issue....could it be/have been - sure perhaps - but is this necessary for friendship - no...does it preclude friendship - no...and so on and so forth. And for one thing one or both might be in a serious relationship or married or such - or just not attracted in a sexual way. I find that friends I have are often becuse of specific coinciding interests. Can't you at all imagine that you might share a specific interest in something with a woman - and perhaps talk about or engage in an activity and enjoy the other's company etc etc without their necessarily being a sexual element at all? If you can do such with a men/men then why not with a woman or women? If you say you can't then I can only conclude that you have a one track mind in regards to women - and I can imagine than many men do (and I cerainly share that track! ) - but I also think that there is much more - to life - to appreciation of others - and concerning in particular friendship etc etc. I would encourage you to try to explore this sometime with a women with whom you might share an interest in something in - and you might be surprised. The added persepctive of a women whom you can trust and talk to - in your life - and without the sexual overtones - may make a great deal of difference in your outlook and perspective and may improve how you manage yourself in the world.

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                  • #99
                    Originally posted by winoman
                    Yes of course - simple minds don't require much it seems...
                    Did you know that when you flush a toilet in Australia the water goes in the opposite direction?
                    Achkerov kute.

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                    • Originally posted by winoman
                      omniscent - I can hardly begin to address all the areas where your analysis falls short. All I can say is that you can only speak from your experience here and it seems to me that it has been limited. You also seem to have this problem of only thinking of women as sex objects. You say that you can't see how a man and a woman could be close and sharing and what not and not preceed to sex (good enough to be a true friend - good enough for sex etc). Well what can I say - its your deficiency really. I have several close female friends that I share much with and the issue of sex with them has never (seriously/realistically) been an issue....could it be/have been - sure perhaps - but is this necessary for friendship - no...does it preclude friendship - no...and so on and so forth. And for one thing one or both might be in a serious relationship or married or such - or just not attracted in a sexual way. I find that friends I have are often becuse of specific coinciding interests. Can't you at all imagine that you might share a specific interest in something with a woman - and perhaps talk about or engage in an activity and enjoy the other's company etc etc without their necessarily being a sexual element at all? If you can do such with a men/men then why not with a woman or women? If you say you can't then I can only conclude that you have a one track mind in regards to women - and I can imagine than many men do (and I cerainly share that track! ) - but I also think that there is much more - to life - to appreciation of others - and concerning in particular friendship etc etc. I would encourage you to try to explore this sometime with a women with whom you might share an interest in something in - and you might be surprised. The added persepctive of a women whom you can trust and talk to - in your life - and without the sexual overtones - may make a great deal of difference in your outlook and perspective and may improve how you manage yourself in the world.

                      Don Juan, you speak like you really care being a woman's friend when all you want is some spicy infidelity.
                      Achkerov kute.

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