"Guy Friends"

[winoman]

Girls and guys can't be friends. What's the matter. You seem bothered by it.

Well your statement is just not true at all - as I demonstrated from my experience - and its not isolated. I also pointed out (once again) your dislike of women (as is shown by your posts). I really think you should keep your (bitter/women hating) homosexual biases out of these discusions - they are obviously not applicable to the society at large - where men and women actually can get along and be friends....there are even many homosexuals (besides yourself) that are able to get along well enough with the opposite sex.

[Anonymouse]

Well your statement is just not true at all - as I demonstrated from my experience - and its not isolated. I also pointed out (once again) your dislike of women (as is shown by your posts). I really think you should keep your (bitter/women hating) homosexual biases out of these discusions - they are obviously not applicable to the society at large - where men and women actually can get along and be friends....there are even many homosexuals (besides yourself) that are able to get along well enough with the opposite sex.

Well, it's okay Mr. Winston, I know you are frustrated by my views and bothered by the fact that men and women cannot be friends aside from certain exceptions. Now I know this may seem unsettling to some, and insecure, but it's okay. We can talk about it. Here is some wine.



Now Mr. Winston, males and females exhibit a certain thing called attraction. When they spend alot of time with each other, they naturally get these feelings, desires, inclinations, and thoughts about each other, whether sexual or emotional, unless they are gay or clueless or hideous. Aside from those circumstances, long exposures of friendship bring out these things. Do you feel threatened by this? Have you perhaps been friends with women other than your wife where you felt these bonds develop? And have you thought about acting on those thoughts?

[winoman]

Atraction is natural - so what - it proves nothing. I can be attracted to a female/females and still maintain a friendship. I have plenty of female friends. And my wife isn't threatened by that fact. Unlike you she is a bit enlightened concerning the fact that women are human beings.

[Anonymouse]

Atraction is natural - so what - it proves nothing. I can be attracted to a female/females and still maintain a friendship. I have plenty of female friends. And my wife isn't threatened by that fact. Unlike you she is a bit enlightened concerning the fact that women are human beings.

Now its okay Mr. Winston. It's okay if you know women and men cannot be friends. I know this bothers you. Have you felt this attraction with your lady friends? Have you also felt the need to act on those desires? This is what it inevitably leads to, and I know this must be hard admitting this, but it's okay.

[winoman]

Now its okay Mr. Winston. It's okay if you know women and men cannot be friends. I know this bothers you. Have you felt this attraction with your lady friends? Have you also felt the need to act on those desires? This is what it inevitably leads to, and I know this must be hard admitting this, but it's okay.

Well I proved you wrong - you can't handle it - so you resort to this - pathetic.

But no problem whatsoever. I am friends with several very attractive women that I've known and been close to for 20 years. There has been no issue of sexual stuff - for the most part - certainly not anything recently - though I've dated two of my friends before and in fact get along reasonably well with several of my ex's - and we've maintained friendships. My wife has likewise maintained a friendship with one of her exs...in fact our respective children - of like age - sometimes play together and our kids have even stayed at his/their house before - no biggie. You see - life is a wonderful and varied thing. It doesn't tend at all to fall into absolute patterens as you seem to think. I find it interesting that your views on women seem to coincide with that of a Muslim fundementalist. You really need to get out more.

[Anonymouse]

Well I proved you wrong - you can't handle it - so you resort to this - pathetic.

But no problem whatsoever. I am friends with several very attractive women that I've known and been close to for 20 years. There has been no issue of sexual stuff - for the most part - certainly not anything recently - though I've dated two of my friends before and in fact get along reasonably well with several of my ex's - and we've maintained friendships. My wife has likewise maintained a friendship with one of her exs...in fact our respective children - of like age - sometimes play together and our kids have even stayed at his/their house before - no biggie. You see - life is a wonderful and varied thing. It doesn't tend at all to fall into absolute patterens as you seem to think. I find it interesting that your views on women seem to coincide with that of a Muslim fundementalist. You really need to get out more.

Now Mr. Winston, how can you sit there and deny that you have never had thoughts of acting on these very sexual thoughts with your female friends, all the while being married? Now I know it's tough, and I don't expect you to be forthcoming as most married men are not, but you do not have to get frustrated. Remember, we control frustration, it doesn't control us. And the reason you will not admit this is because it will prove me right (and we know how you would hate to have me proven right), thus who knows what you will make up, all these mythical friends of yours, to somehow "prove" that I am wrong. But it's okay, life is indeed a varied thing. Here, I'll pour you a glass of wine.

[hyebruin]

all this talk about wine...and i have one thing to say!

In vino veritas

may the truth set us all free! and keep you two quiet!

[Anonymouse]

all this talk about wine...and i have one thing to say!

In vino veritas

may the truth set us all free! and keep you two quiet!

My dear, would you like some wine? Since I poured a glass for winoman, I might as well finish this here bottle. Here you go Mademoiselle

[hyebruin]

My dear, would you like some wine? Since I poured a glass for winoman, I might as well finish this here bottle. Here you go Mademoiselle

that is just mean! and uncalled for!

[Anonymouse]

that is just mean! and uncalled for!

I was being nice. I do not understand. I poured some for me as well. Jeez, fine. More for me. Go and try to be nice and people don't appreciate it.