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  • #41
    Originally posted by ArmoBarbi
    P.P.S. This has passed silly and gone straight into absurd...
    dear, i think that it's the way it started
    "A man can stand anything except a succession of ordinary days."
    -- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

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    • #42
      Originally posted by ddd
      Armobarbi, are you a virgin? Have you ever been touched by prior boyfriends?
      She will answer to you,if you publicly answer to your own questions as well.

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      • #43
        Originally posted by ArmoBarbi
        We are both people who believe that some jealousy is healthy.
        Yes, a little jealousy, like vaccine, can make the relationship's "immune system" stronger; too much of it - like infection - can infest and destroy it.
        I'm afraid that in your case, it looks like infection! I understand that jealousy is hard to control, but please do your best! Think of the future and what you can build and achieve together; it is very unlikely that you will ever be the first woman in anybody's life. That shouldn't make your love/relationship less pure, extraordinary or heavenly!



        Originally posted by ArmoBarbi
        Is there anything I can/should do that would help??...
        Yes, there is! Talk and think about it with an open mind!




        Originally posted by ArmoBarbi
        ... Should I try more physical contact? Should I take the next step in intimacy?
        You can try, it may or may not help! It may also have a negative impact!




        Originally posted by ArmoBarbi
        My best idea is to have sex with another man before him, but I don't think thats an option at this point...
        In case it was an option, how would that help? Is it about "getting even?"
        With all due respect, we have all the ingredients to destroy a relationship:
        - Unsettling jealousy
        - Sleeping with others simply because your partner did - not even does!




        Originally posted by ArmoBarbi
        You think these feelings will just fade? I find that hard to believe as much as Id like it... It seems more like they will go away only once I do these things with him myself, which I would accept, only to do those things in the first place I need to get over these emotions! Its one vicious cycle
        They may fade or become stronger. All depends how your perception of it evolves. In the worse case, you will destroy your relationship, suffer and learn from it.
        Last edited by Siamanto; 08-06-2005, 08:26 PM.
        What if I find someone else when looking for you? My soul shivers as the idea invades my mind.

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        • #44
          Originally posted by Red Brigade
          She will answer to you,if you publicly answer to your own questions as well.
          I'm not looking for an answer, I'd rather she answer it to herself.

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          • #45
            Alright so in short, each one of your potential boyfriends shouldn't date anyone but you, if you find out they ever touched another girl, it's over.

            Great , now you only have to get a real big microphone and tell the ones concerned to turn of their lust just for you.

            That's rather egocentric.

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            • #46
              Originally posted by CatWoman
              Barbi I went through the same thing when I was 19 with this guy I was dating.... exact same feelings! When he told me about his ex and that he slept with her, I was so disgusted I didn't let him touch me the whole day! Then I asked him how many times they did it!!! ( he thought that was the funniest question ever LOL...).
              LOL It is funny! I may have never said it I would have found it funny!


              Originally posted by CatWoman
              Then I realized it's really hard to find a virgin guy nowadays, not that I would want one.
              Did you also "realized it's really hard to find a virgin" gals "nowadays, not that I would want one:" I am a quarter Guamese!
              What if I find someone else when looking for you? My soul shivers as the idea invades my mind.

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              • #47
                I am a virgin, otherwise (I believe) I would not feel so strongly about this. I have had intimate relations with two ex bfs, which my bf doesnt like either, but I never had sex. My bf and I dont plan to have sex unless we get married btw. He feels the same way as I do about premarrital sex now.



                Red, its ok.

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                • #48
                  Originally posted by Red Brigade
                  I merely said that i don't like the fact that foreigners are screwing armenian girls.In other words using armenian girls for their personal satisfaction.
                  You talk about the act of making love as if the man does something to the woman. I always made sure to always use expressions where I can use "with" such as "making love with someone." The roles are symmetrical!
                  Of course, it can happen for a man or woman to be raped by another man or woman.



                  Originally posted by Red Brigade
                  If we use the previous logic which is:

                  1)When an armenian male is screwing an Otar then we are penetrating in the territories of other countries.

                  2)When an Armenian woman is getting screwed it is as if they are invading to Armenia.
                  First of all, I'm not sure if the word "logic" is appropriate; I would have used "thinking" or "opinion."
                  If the same "logic" applies to other nations; then I wonder how many neo-colonialist leftists are there? As a matter of fact, many leftists "invade" many many countries!

                  Also, are you suggesting that "screwing" *urkish women would equate to invading TEMPORARILY SO CALLED Turkey? winoman tried to screw ThornyRose, yet he got screwed!

                  Note: I have chosen to auto censor the words "*urk" or "*urkish" because it is commonly perceived as unpleasant and offending, evokes unpleasant emotions and imagery and is pregnant with immoral and evil connotations!
                  Last edited by Siamanto; 08-06-2005, 09:40 PM.
                  What if I find someone else when looking for you? My soul shivers as the idea invades my mind.

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                  • #49
                    Originally posted by Siamanto
                    You talk about the act of making love as if the man does something to the woman.
                    It is not ''as if'',the man is doing something to the woman and the woman is enduring,with pleasure, the situation.

                    Originally posted by Siamanto

                    If the same "logic" applies to other nations; then I wonder how many neo-colonialist leftists are there? As a matter of fact, many leftists "invade" many many countries!
                    They did in order to achieve International Socialism.

                    Originally posted by Siamanto
                    Also, are you suggesting that "screwing" *urkish women would equate to invading TEMPORARILY SO CALLED Turkey? winoman tried to screw ThornyRose, yet he got screwed!
                    I assume yes.

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                    • #50
                      Creeps!!

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