Are You Currently In A Relationship?

[Siggie]

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All I know is I want a girlfriend. I want someone to be there for me, and I'll be there for her. So, right now, I'm not happy. Things ended horribly with her, and it doesn't look like I'll find someone new anytime soon. I'm so busy with work, I don't even have time to go out, which will probably come in the way with other girls I meet. Heck, I won't even have time to meet them, lol.

A wise friend once told me that we should first be okay with being alone. Then you can meet someone.

[Sip]

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A wise friend once told me that we should first be okay with being alone.

Amen to that! It's not an easy journey to get to a point where you can comfortably be content with your "self". The only thing I would like to add is that strangely enough, you could be surrounded by many people yet still feel 'alone' ... so it's more a matter of what you think/feel inside rather than who is around you and who you hang out with.

As a side note, don't buy into this pop culture phrase "you complete me" bull. That implies you cannot be a complete person by yourself. A lot of old ladies, grandma and aunt types may also be telling you the same and they are all stuck in a very specific mind set (Holywood certainly plays its role in this).

You don't "need" anyone to be complete but yourself.

[HyeWayCop]

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Sip maybe you have never fell in love thats why your talking like that. Most people that say they have no time for a bf/gf is bull, its just that they cant find someone... go out to parties school im sure someone will talk to you. But the whole " I have no time" or " I dont want a bf/gf " is all BS.

[Crissy]

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I agree with Sip, you don't need someone to comlete you. And you need to be content with yourself before you can make someone else happy. Usually people don't realise what they really want. They just want a bf/gf because either everyone else around them has it, or they are just feeling lonely. These are 2 wrong reasons to be with someone.

No time for a partner may be an excuse to some, but generally it's true. If someone is too career oriented, will never have time or make time for a partner. I have a friend who doesn't get home from work until 9 or 10 at night and every other week she is travelling for work. There is obviously no time for a bf, no partner could put up with that, I know I wouldn't if I could only see my partner 10% of the time.

[jgk3]

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Sip maybe you have never fell in love thats why your talking like that. Most people that say they have no time for a bf/gf is bull, its just that they cant find someone... go out to parties school im sure someone will talk to you. But the whole " I have no time" or " I dont want a bf/gf " is all BS.

I find that when you fall in love, you create a void inside of you to be filled by the person you fall for. If you work at filling in the void yourself, without other people, you will gradually come out of love and stabilize with only yourself. Maybe that's what he's talking about?

[One-Way]

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I don't have time, but shit, I'll make time. I want a girl.

[Crissy]

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why is that hun?

[Jen]

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Yep, my bf and I have been together for almost 3 years...July 12th is our 3rd Anniversary...

[One-Way]

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why is that hun?

As I said, I want somebody to be there for me. It just gives me a reason to get up in the morning, just gives me something to look forward to.

[Crissy]

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you shouldn't look for her too hard, she will come to you

Love comes when most unexpected. don't you think???

oh and sorry for not getting in touch with you again before i left.