Are You Currently In A Relationship?

[jgk3]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

that sucks... She seems to keep inviting you to parties, that should be a hint as to what the problem is. She wants to fool around, nothing serious, just lots of fun, yet you want something more real.

So as you said, she looks confused because she's not sure she's doing the right thing by inviting you to these parties.

I personally don't like parties for this reason... People are there to fool around stupidly, at least people my age. Getting drunk or high for no reason, thinking it's essential if they wish to mingle... Lack of maturity and "profound shallowness" is all it is. I never have fun at stupid parties.

It really doesn't look like it's gonna work until you can trust eachother... You'll have to re-establish that trust if you want anything with her. Start from scratch.

[One-Way]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

Nail on the head, again. You're a smart man.

The thing is, I don't mind messing around with girls at parties. I'm still a kid, I should just be living. But, I don't want that right now. I don't want to just mess around with this girl, and if she really wants that, that's probably the reason it's never working out. I think she just sees me as another guy to fool around with, but still cares about me. I think I care way too much, and I see her as something more. That's why when I talk to her, and when she doesn't pay much attention to me, I feel more sad, because I realize she doesn't want what I want.

Somehow, I'm willing to trust her again. After all that she did. But I don't know if I should. She's never told me she'll be trustworthy. She keeps acting like a little kid. That alone should be a reason I should leave, but for SOME reason, I stay. I guess it's because I'm sick of having nobody, and when somebody comes along, I stick with them, even if there are a few flaws. That's basically all it is.

[jgk3]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

yeah makes sense... Then it's really up to you to downplay the situation if you wanna still hang out with her. Maybe if you show her you can play it casually, it would satisfy her more? It's tough, but you don't have much room to work with.

[One-Way]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

Yeah, but I'll probably be back here in a week talking about how she's gone, and how I ended up with a new, stupider girl.

[jgk3]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

lol... You'll only burden yourself if you think ahead when you're feeling blue.

[One-Way]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

Right, right.

[jgk3]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

Distract yourself, find other ways to have fun!

[One-Way]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

It's not the same.

Today, she got off work at 4, and told me she'd call me. We both had nothing planned, so it was a good opportunity to go out. But now, her away message says "Partying it up". She didn't even bother to call, or anything. And she's at a party. Things like this make me think she doesn't care at all.

[jgk3]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

Well then, since you had nothing planned, you could've gone to the park and played some basketball or something... It sucks staying at home feeling forgotten, you gotta stand on your feet man!

[One-Way]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

You're right. I just went out with my friends, and I texted her, and she replied back telling me she was at a party and that she'd call me later. Man, being nice gets you nowhere. I gotta stop caring. Stop giving them second chances. Stop trying to make it work. It's apparent she doesn't care about me. I should just forget her.