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Do you think I should at least try to be friends with him? I hope so. How? If he is with someone else, I'd like to still talk. I love him lots. Sip, this guy, is awesome.
OH no no no ... that will only lead to more hurt. Whether he is with someone else or not is irrelevant. If he doesn't want to talk (as in has vanished), then let it be. It might seem like it's hard to do and that you'll never get over him etc ... but it only SEEMS that way.
If you don't want to listen to me, listen to this guy:
"If you love something let it go free. If it doesn't come back, you never had it. If it comes back, love it forever". ~ Doug Horton
"If you love something let it go free. If it doesn't come back, you never had it. If it comes back, love it forever". ~ Doug Horton
Sip!
You put up the corny girl quote!
Originally posted by Anahita
...I never put myself in a position to know that... I was honest, and very vulnerable. Do you think I should at least try to be friends with him? I hope so. How? If he is with someone else, I'd like to still talk. I love him lots. Sip, this guy, is awesome...
Perfect solution:
All you have do is become more 'awesome' than him.
Then, you're standards for awesome-ness will become much higher, and soon enough you'll be fishin' for bigger, more awesome fish!
OH no no no ... that will only lead to more hurt. Whether he is with someone else or not is irrelevant. If he doesn't want to talk (as in has vanished), then let it be. It might seem like it's hard to do and that you'll never get over him etc ... but it only SEEMS that way.
Oh, no. no no...
I can't speak for all women, but for me vanish completel;u = a lifetime of hurt ( from whom you vanish from).
Quote...
"If you love something let it go free. If it doesn't come back, you never had it. If it comes back, love it forever". ~ Doug Horton
Sip, I hear you sweetheart. Yeah, but this guy did 'let me go free.' I love that. I would still feel 'free' with him (meaning he would support me in what I want to do...) I am free without him, too. (except that I keep popping images of our children, in my head.) But, I don't feel "free" when there is so much I don't understand where I did wrong with one of the most important persons in my life... maybe I didn't go wrong, at all.
Forget him. You just have to accept that he met you and maybe wasn't ready to feel the way about you as you were ready to feel about him. You can't force these kinds of things.
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