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That is good advice, Sip and ExtraHye. ExtraHye, it is good to hear the view from someone who has experienced and felt something similar. It is also encouraging that you found someone who loves you as you are. Being just friends with him would not cause me more hurt. However, trying to be his friend and being ignored has really been killing me. I'm a very sensitive person and I guess that I've learned to be more cautious with my feelings. I wanted so much to believe that there was a chance that we might be friends again that I didn’t want to see what seems obvious. Odds are that he is not going to have a change of heart and want to talk again. I suppose it is unlikely that I will win Powerball, too. So, if I win the lottery, then I’ll believe in ‘against all odds.’
I guess I have to accept that I may never know what happened. Just talking here with you guys helped quite a bit to give me some closure. Thank you.
He never deserved your friendship to begin with, he wants to act childish, then it's his loss really. Being friends with him is not going to help the situation as you have stronger feelings for him.
You are much better off without him anyways, you probably had this image of him (not physical as Sip said) and he would never have been able to live up to it.
So drink up, live life and enjoy NOW, tomorrow is another day. who knows who you'll meet tomorrow
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