Are You Currently In A Relationship?

[Kiko]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

Don't miss the chance and talk to him before he moves, try to know how he feels about you too before you tell him about your feelings - if possible - so you will not get hurt.

[Anahita]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

Don't miss the chance and talk to him before he moves, try to know how he feels about you too before you tell him about your feelings - if possible - so you will not get hurt.

Today, he suggested that he and I move to another country to do this project together, there. ??? And not just suggested, but really has some plans for that...

But, later, he also told me that he's been seeing a woman who might move here...

then he told me about where is moving and his apt. ??? I think he might be interested in me. But, I don't know how to read any of that...

[Kiko]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

He seems to be confused about his feelings a little, but if he wants you to move with him to another country and has plans it shows that he is interested about you. If you are ready to move, go for it.

[Anahita]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

He seems to be confused about his feelings a little, but if he wants you to move with him to another country and has plans it shows that he is interested about you. If you are ready to move, go for it.

Well, that confuses me, too. This is a project in a country where we both have lived and care about. We both have strong ties there. I don't know what to make of that... maybe he just wants a 'business partner,' though, knowing him, I seriously doubt that. Moving there for at least 1/2 of each year is certainly something I might do, anyway.

It is the what and how to say that I guess I want help with... plus, he already mentioned a woman 'he's been seeing.' I don't know...

[jgk3]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

I'm not great at the being 'discreet' part, though. My situation is even more weird than normal... can you give me an example of how you think I could do that?

Discreet... Tell him you "kinda" like him. Nothing more. Act accordingly to his reactions, and how far you can go with the act of "kinda" liking him. If it works, then you can show your true feelings, but beware... Guys get intimidated if you become clingy, if you start talking poetically about how how this guy is the sun that shines through all clouds, and yadda yadda yadda :P

Kind of a tricky business, but your successes can backfire as well, if he in turn becomes too clingy with you, calls too often for your comfort, but I don't get that impression from the description of him you've given so far. However, the whole moving to another country sounds kinda demanding... I dunno about that part.

[Anonymouse]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

Everyone knows the answers to everything in the Love and Romance forum.

[Kiko]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

except you Anonymouse?

[Anahita]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

Discreet... Tell him you "kinda" like him. Nothing more. Act accordingly to his reactions, and how far you can go with the act of "kinda" liking him. If it works, then you can show your true feelings, but beware... Guys get intimidated if you become clingy, if you start talking poetically about how how this guy is the sun that shines through all clouds, and yadda yadda yadda :P

Kind of a tricky business, but your successes can backfire as well, if he in turn becomes too clingy with you, calls too often for your comfort, but I don't get that impression from the description of him you've given so far. However, the whole moving to another country sounds kinda demanding... I dunno about that part.

The moving to another country part isn't weird or demanding, from my point of view. We've both lived there at the same time. We've been working together to protect nature there, since. I suppose I'll do what I do and say what I think... I could feel like a fool, but I KNOW that at least, with him, even if he wasn't interested in more than friends, we will still be close. And we will continue to do what we've been doing for years... I know that without doubt. I don't want to feel hurt, though.

I appreciate your help. Thanks.

[Anonymouse]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

except you Anonymouse?

What part of 'everyone' did you not understand?

[One-Way]

Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

Well, guys. I saw that girl tonight, for the first time since everything ended.

She was going out tonight, and I had nothing to do, so when I got home, she called me, and told me I should come to her friend's house for a party. I went, and I guess it was weird seeing her after what happened. She was acting like she was before, nothing different. I could sense a little change, though. As if she wasn't sure if she wanted to be with me. After all, we haven't made anything official.

Anyway, afterwards, she had to go, so now I'm home. Thinking. Confused. Annoyed.