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  • #481
    Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

    thanks for the help... I don't think that link helps me out though, I live in Canada.

    I guess there was a degree of stress and tension between my ex-gf when we were trying to be intimate, and that did cause a lot of problems... I've said things to her now that I'm not with her anymore, that have brought me closer to her, and actually made me appreciate her more than I could've realized if I still had her andshe's also gotten a lot of things off her chest too that she could not have done prior to breaking up with me. I think if we were both single again and had some sexual intimacy again, it would be a lot better (not that it wasn't good before, but still).

    My current environment seems very homophobic, at the Cegep as well as with my current friends... Only my ex-gf knows about my curiousity, and at the time, it generated a wedge in our relationship, but now that we've talked it over from a different point of view, I don't think it would do such a thing anymore. I don't mind my current environment, it doesn't stress me out, but I lack the information I need to move on and understand myself.

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    • #482
      Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

      Maybe that link will help someone else in a similar position. Are you thinking about getting back with your ex-gf?
      Last edited by Anahita; 05-24-2006, 07:18 PM.

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      • #483
        Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

        I can't. She's with some other guy... If I had the chance to, I would, but at the same time, I'm finishing school and after my conservatory exam and recital for the piano, I'll have the summer to count on my buddies for some partying, so I can meet new people. It's not the same as being with my ex-gf who is pretty much the best friend I have (although I've been seeing her a lot less the past few months due to her work schedule and my school schedule), but I have to move on I guess.

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        • #484
          Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

          Originally posted by jgk3
          I can't. She's with some other guy... If I had the chance to, I would, but at the same time, I'm finishing school and after my conservatory exam and recital for the piano, I'll have the summer to count on my buddies for some partying, so I can meet new people. It's not the same as being with my ex-gf who is pretty much the best friend I have (although I've been seeing her a lot less the past few months due to her work schedule and my school schedule), but I have to move on I guess.
          So long as you do no harm, you should do what is best for you sweetie. [hugs]

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          A bit off subtopic: 'Let's give them something to talk about. How about love.'
          Last edited by Anahita; 05-24-2006, 08:46 PM.

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          • #485
            Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

            haha, thx

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            • #486
              Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

              Originally posted by jgk3
              Well, I really did enjoy the sexual and just friendly intimacy I've had with my ex-gf... I don't like the fact that the sexual part has been discontinued, as the knowledge of her being with this other guy made me go through a pain I've never really gone through before... It was only at this point that I realized I took her for granted this whole time.

              As for sexuality, I am very inexperienced and really don't have a clear position on my sexual orientation that I can tell others, but the social label of bisexual seems the most accessible to me anyhow, as I've talked to some and they seem to be able to relate to me... In any case, I do not find these labels too important, they're just for convenience sake.

              I've experienced times where I "thought" I was attracted to men, but had no way of acting on it, and developped techniques which cut the potential for me to develop stronger feelings for them, short, as they were inappropriate in this madly heterosexual environment that doesn't even support non-sexual male intimacy. I am currently trying to let these potentials return, and now that I'm single, I'm free to act on them... I guess I'm interested in experimenting, I'm still just 17. I've read all kinds of reports on sexual phenomenons and find it very interesting, I've listened to many examples of relationships and I continue to have an open mind on the subject, but I need some experience, you know, just for myself, to equilibriate my knowledge.

              I've gone through my fair share of stress and worry over my sexuality in the past... I've had moments where I could've broken down, because I would not be accepted for who I was, and later on would realize, I still don't know who I am, there's a possibility that I've been a hetero the whole time. Yet my experience as someone in the shoes of a sexually curious person who tries to make sense of all human relationships, I will never regret.

              You should meet Cheka. He is our full resident homosexual, as all part of the Armenianclub.com efforts to meet the criteria of diversity.
              Achkerov kute.

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              • #487
                Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

                The Emo Song
                http://emosong.ytmnd.com/
                Thank you to whoever made holdon.ytmnd.com for providing the pic and adam and andrew for making the song.

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                • #488
                  Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

                  The emo song is classic.
                  Achkerov kute.

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                  • #489
                    Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

                    wow, that is classic.

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                    • #490
                      Re: Are You Currently In A Relationship?

                      I went on a date tonight (with a guy I've know for 2 plus years...)...

                      I'm pretty sure I knew what he thought, but I'm also not sure what I should think about that. I also still have my heart very attached to someone.
                      Last edited by Anahita; 06-10-2006, 09:59 PM.

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