The 5 secrets to a Successful Relationship

[surferarmo]

From experience, not all, but most girls expect that all relationships will end and act very pessimisstic. Then they act as they were joking. Girls, is there a reason why you do this? (If you do it) It makes the guy feel like the company isnt wanted, and it inspires mistrust, and makes the guy pessimisstic in return.

[gorsenvadz]

well i feel as tho im a natural born pessimist...wait no actually id say the glass is neither ½ empty or full cuz I drank what was in it …so i don’t really know what that makes me. :idea: As for when it comes to relationships I believe if it was meant to be it would somehow work out at the end

[jahannam]

From experience, not all, but most girls expect that all relationships will end and act very pessimisstic. Then they act as they were joking. Girls, is there a reason why you do this? (If you do it) It makes the guy feel like the company isnt wanted, and it inspires mistrust, and makes the guy pessimisstic in return.

I dunno what kind of girls YOU've been seeing... but I thought girls always think forever... lol
and I thought THAT's what makes you guys scared!!!
I've never heard of a girl who wants the relationship she's in to end!!
specially armenians...
or am I alone here girls?

[gorsenvadz]

"Meant to be" is the kind of nonsense that drives me nuts, when your behavior is exactly the opposite.

What women call a "relationship" is when the woman benefits from being with a man that can help her in some way, and he doesn't complain about it and goes along with the plan. And you call that "love".
Women don't just want to get married, they want to "marry up". Your game is a strategy desguised by flowery words and hallmark cards.

thats such crap....how dare u generalize in such a negative way? i dont consider a relationship something i only benefit from, thats absurd.
a relationship takes 2 people who both give and take equally

[fIReBuRntInHeLL]

From experience, not all, but most girls expect that all relationships will end and act very pessimisstic. Then they act as they were joking. Girls, is there a reason why you do this? (If you do it) It makes the guy feel like the company isnt wanted, and it inspires mistrust, and makes the guy pessimisstic in return.

I dunno what kind of girls YOU've been seeing... but I thought girls always think forever... lol
and I thought THAT's what makes you guys scared!!!
I've never heard of a girl who wants the relationship she's in to end!!
specially armenians...
or am I alone here girls?

this time I have to agree with you! but not noly armenian girls do that, but also the Otars.

[jahannam]

"Meant to be" is the kind of nonsense that drives me nuts, when your behavior is exactly the opposite.

What women call a "relationship" is when the woman benefits from being with a man that can help her in some way, and he doesn't complain about it and goes along with the plan. And you call that "love".
Women don't just want to get married, they want to "marry up". Your game is a strategy desguised by flowery words and hallmark cards.

oh please don't be trying to define love... it's beyond you and everyone else...
and trust me... girls prefer it when you show your feelings without "hallmark cards" or flowers... but show it SOMEHOW...
I ,personally, can tell from the way they look at me...
the glare in the eye might not mean anything to you... but everyone's different.
ever heard "more than words" by Extreme?
and about the phrase "meant to be"... it's a beautiful phrase... people have just used it to an extent where it's gotten spoiled and it's lost its meaning. but then again... that takes us back to FATE, and how guys in general don't believe in it, cuz it makes them feel like they're not in control of EVERYTHING...
and speaking of benefitting from relationships... why don't we vice-versa what you said and make it something like... "What men call a "relationship" is when the man benefits from being with a woman that can pleasure him whenever he wants for free, and she doesn't complain about it and goes along with the plan.And you call that "love". "
thank you thank you
*makes that throat cleaning sound*

[omniscient]

whaaat? relationships? they exist?

you out of all people didn't have to ask...
it's written on your forehead...

havent been in a relationship for 5 years

[jahannam]

and I'll give you at leeeast another 5 years...

[omniscient]

and I'll give you at leeeast another 5 years...

i dont know jahannam this might be one of the few times where i might agree with you. we'll see what happens. if it happens it happens. i could have been in relationships with the greatest girls inside and out but its my fault so its cool. gotta fix yourself first before taking on yourself and another. maybe tonight if i cant sleep again ill tell you exactly what i think about relationships and love and so on, it will be very insightful i can promise you that

[jahannam]

jahannam i wouldn't touch you with a stick, I don't care if it's "free". So don't worry you're safe.

chem hasgnar...
8) Is that a compliment???

lol