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Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?
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Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?
This is all my opinion, and please don't kill me for it. (For surely someday i will)
I agree a woman should stay "pure" for the simple fact that one day she plans on being loved by a man. And one day she will have daughters of her own, what will she tell them?
"Its ok to have sex as long as your young, later you'll grow up and understand you were wrong."
No shadow of a doubt about it... if a woman is pure, she will have a certain specialty to her husband that an "un-pure" (is that a term?) woman will never be able to offer.
I know, there are lots of things that go into making a relationship work, duh!!!! But, there is something very special about knowing you were you're partners first, and she was your first!!!
I kind of understand a woman haveing sex with a boyfriend whom she beleives she is in love with and will one day marry. But...F(cking for a cheap 5 second orgasm......
In our armenian culture a man's sexuality should be eqauly important.
It shows the type of family he has been brought by.
It shows his inability to controll himself.
It shows a lack of religion (abrahamic religion).
(same goes for a girl too)
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Sexual liberation is pernitious, much like homosexuality, infact the two have a some sort of corolation i'm sure of it, but can't prove it immperically.
This topic of virgin girls will someday be the cause of my demise.....
Anything else, you can talk about with your parents, but honestly....how many of you non virgin Armenian girls discuss your sex life with your fathers or brothers, and how many of you non-virgin Armenian boys discuss your sex life with your mothers and sisters. ......that's right you have some shame, that's right you have *some* shame.
But eventually we will all be so disencitisezed (spelling error, whatever) to sex that we will all discuss the various sex acts we enact, in fact we will boast about them to everyone: moms, dads, grandparents...it's so obvious, because everyone who is salaciously (se, whatever) going about their business, will some day be a parent and a grandparent so the trend will be in the direction of sexuall communism (think about that one for a minute).
Any armo-girls who regret losing their virginity? And why? I don't understand how we don't learn from the mistakes of others, we are such an advanced society?
Yes, we're free to do whatever we want...sexually, monitarilly and everythingally (legaly ofcourse), eh whatever.well.........that was my rant for the day.
Many cheers all, whatever you're doing please be safe and try not to hurt people who don't deserve to be hurt...
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Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?
Originally posted by aceWhats wrong with our old school view? It has gained us nothing but international respect and admiration for our culture.
What has this new view gained us? HIV infection and divorce rates sky rocketing?
international respect and admiration for our culture????? do you know what people say about armenians??????? oh man, that rock you're under, i need to get me one of those
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Originally posted by thedebutanteinternational respect and admiration for our culture????? do you know what people say about armenians??????? oh man, that rock you're under, i need to get me one of those
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Originally posted by Gunner14I agree a woman should stay "pure" for the simple fact that one day she plans on being loved by a man. And one day she will have daughters of her own, what will she tell them?
"Its ok to have sex as long as your young, later you'll grow up and understand you were wrong."
What you and people like you are advocating is for 1/2+ of our population to live in slavery - to not be able to experience the joys of life, and to not be respected as an adult to makes one's own decisions. Your nuts really. Why would anyone tell someone (who is not a child) that sex/having sex was "wrong" if that was something they wished to do or had done? What business is it of yours to dictate someone elses life decsions to them? And so what if they wish to have a loty of sex with different partners or with a few or what have you...sex....is....good....dumbnuts!
Originally posted by Gunner14No shadow of a doubt about it... if a woman is pure, she will have a certain specialty to her husband that an "un-pure" (is that a term?) woman will never be able to offer.
Originally posted by Gunner14I know, there are lots of things that go into making a relationship work, duh!!!! But, there is something very special about knowing you were you're partners first, and she was your first!!!
Originally posted by Gunner14I kind of understand a woman haveing sex with a boyfriend whom she beleives she is in love with and will one day marry. But...F(cking for a cheap 5 second orgasm......
Originally posted by Gunner14In our armenian culture a man's sexuality should be eqauly important.
Originally posted by Gunner14It shows the type of family he has been brought by.
Originally posted by Gunner14It shows his inability to controll himself.
Originally posted by Gunner14It shows a lack of religion (abrahamic religion).
Originally posted by Gunner14(same goes for a girl too)
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Sexual liberation is pernitious, much like homosexuality, infact the two have a some sort of corolation i'm sure of it, but can't prove it immperically.
Originally posted by Gunner14This topic of virgin girls will someday be the cause of my demise.....
Originally posted by Gunner14Anything else, you can talk about with your parents, but honestly....how many of you non virgin Armenian girls discuss your sex life with your fathers or brothers, and how many of you non-virgin Armenian boys discuss your sex life with your mothers and sisters. ......that's right you have some shame, that's right you have *some* shame.
Originally posted by Gunner14But eventually we will all be so disencitisezed (spelling error, whatever) to sex that we will all discuss the various sex acts we enact, in fact we will boast about them to everyone: moms, dads, grandparents...it's so obvious, because everyone who is salaciously (se, whatever) going about their business, will some day be a parent and a grandparent so the trend will be in the direction of sexuall communism (think about that one for a minute).
Originally posted by Gunner14Any armo-girls who regret losing their virginity? And why? I don't understand how we don't learn from the mistakes of others, we are such an advanced society?
Originally posted by Gunner14Yes, we're free to do whatever we want...sexually, monitarilly and everythingally (legaly ofcourse), eh whatever.well.........that was my rant for the day.
Originally posted by Gunner14Many cheers all, whatever you're doing please be safe and try not to hurt people who don't deserve to be hurt...
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here is a real experience... i did everything with my one of the ex girl friends except that last thing... she just said that she wanted to save that for the future husband.... now you tell me about staying pure... now her husband will think that she is pure... just like you dumbos... a bunch of nonsense boblers... you will never have the capacity to understand that "PURE" is not between the legs but inside your brains... you know what..you will always be suspicious of sincerity of the people you live with because you yourselves are not pure in your minds...Last edited by Otto3; 12-20-2005, 10:23 AM.
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Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?
Originally posted by aceOriginally posted by SiamantoUnfortunately, that is the case; but with different degrees. The problem is that your views - at least the way you express them - promote domestic violence.
Also, the lack of clarity in the roles and lack of logic in their - i.e. roles - justification will probably open room for different interpretations and promote unfair practices towards women.
If your concerns are as noble as you pretend, then why don't you suggest an alternative solution? How about if we reversed the roles and situations i.e.
- There will be male prostitutes, instead of female
- Male virginity will be enforced, but women may have pre-marital sex
- Males who lose their virginity will be vilipended
- ...........
Considering that women are lesser "dogs" than men, I think that the above arrangements may prove to be a superior solution to what you suggested as a solution to some of the social issues that you have mentioned.
Would you accept such arrangements? I seriously doubt.
Personally, I wouldn't like to the see it happen; because, I don't want to see women turning into men: it would be a shame!
Originally posted by aceOriginally posted by aceYou just dont agree with the "abstinance usually signifies respect for ones body and future life partner." Logically, I can't see how it doesn't. But I guess thats an opionin.Originally posted by SiamantoJust curious, how did you come to that conclusion?
You have stated that IOriginally posted by acedont agree with the "abstinance usually signifies respect for ones body and future life partner."Originally posted by Siamantohow did you come to that conclusion?What if I find someone else when looking for you? My soul shivers as the idea invades my mind.
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Originally posted by thedebutanteoh man, that rock you're under, i need to get me one of those
Originally posted by thedebutanteoh man, that rock you're under, i need to get me one of thoseLast edited by Siamanto; 12-20-2005, 12:46 PM.What if I find someone else when looking for you? My soul shivers as the idea invades my mind.
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