Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

[ace]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

Come on, ace. What's this stuff about keeping your culture pure and how a women's virginity means so much more than a man's? Do you have any idea why that is? It has nothing to do with your culture, because it's been the case in just about every culture at some point or other, and the reason is simple. Most cultures are patriarchal, and passed property or power or something else from father to son, and a son needed to be legitimate to inherit whatever it is he was to inherit. The only way to ensure that a son was legitimately yours was to know that your wife had never been with another man. Most cultures, when they did such novel things as allowing women to have property or hold positions of power, gave it up. Perhaps you should as well. A women keeping herself a virgin for her husband is not doing it because she has any more respect for her body or her future partner than anyone else. She is doing it because she was made to believe that she should do it by those in positions of power who wanted her to behave that way, for the simple reason that their fathers did the same, for the simple reason that a thousand years ago, there was actually some legal significance to a woman's virginity. And now, because people like you are so hip on 'preserving their culture,' and just doing whatever it is that their fathers did, with no regard whatsoever to why they did it, it continues.

I said preserving our culture, right? Can you please define "culture" and what it is made of - as you see fit.

[transience]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

Deffinitly shouldn't. What do you think being a promiscious girl implies about her character?

Just because a woman isn't a virgin does not mean she is sexually promiscuous.

[LadySilver]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

Deffinitly shouldn't. What do you think being a promiscious girl implies about her character?

I really don't like judging people only based by their actions without knowing why they are like that. People make mistakes, having their own personal reasons for their actions.

[LadySilver]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

Just because a woman isn't a virgin does not mean she is sexually promiscuous.

I agree =)

[ace]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

Just because a woman isn't a virgin does not mean she is sexually promiscuous.

I didn't imply that.

[transience]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

I didn't imply that.

Yeah, but this thread is bullshyt and I thought my little statement up there would put an end to it.

[ace]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

I really don't like judging people only based by their actions without knowing why they are like that. People make mistakes, having their own personal reasons for their actions.

A mistake is f ucking a guy you didn't want to f uck...and you only did because you were really mad at your boyfriend for cheating on you and wanted to get back at him - THAT is a mistake. You think being a promiscious girl is a mistake?

You didn't say anything I didn't agree with though, but you didnt answer my question. Do you think being a promiscious girl says anything about her character? And if so, what does it say about her?

[ace]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

Yeah, but this thread is bullshyt and I thought my little statement up there would put an end to it.

Almost 4000 views...its appearently on alot of peoples minds...let us discuss it.

[LadySilver]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

A mistake is f ucking a guy you didn't want to f uck...and you only did because you were really mad at your boyfriend for cheating on you and wanted to get back at him - THAT is a mistake. You think being a promiscious girl is a mistake?

You didn't say anything I didn't agree with though, but you didnt answer my question. Do you think being a promiscious girl says anything about her character? And if so, what does it say about her?

I didn't answer because I don't want to. I know a lot of promiscuous women and I treat them no differently than anyone else.

[ace]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

I didn't answer because I don't want to. I know a lot of promiscuous women and I treat them no differently than anyone else.

I take that as a no. Neway, if you dont want to continue the conversation, can you atlesat tell me why?