Armenian lesbians/gays

[Eddo211]

Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

Judging from some of the epic fails I've seen in terms of choices and outcomes, neither can many men. Armenian men really need to stop trying to find their mothers' clones, and need to stop trying to please their mothers with the women they decide to marry. The worst mistake a man can do is to not be completely separate from the family before getting married.

Englishmen love their wifes and have many girlfriends
Americans love their girlfriends and have had many wifes.
Armenian (and Persians) have many wifes and girlfriends but they love their mother. lol

[KanadaHye]

Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

And, conversely, the men are bitter because the women who worked hard and sacrificed their time for education and career want someone who is intelligent, civilized, and egalitarian rather than some dude in a Ferrari with lots of money but little to talk about other than how he got his Ferrari.

You do realize the Ferrari was a metaphor...

[Flamenkita]

Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

Then they get angry because these guys who worked hard and sacrificed their time for education/career want a new model Ferrari instead of an old Pinto.

And, conversely, the men are bitter because the women who worked hard and sacrificed their time for education and career want someone who is intelligent, civilized, and egalitarian rather than some dude in a Ferrari with lots of money but little to talk about other than how he got his Ferrari.

[Flamenkita]

Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

Some women couldn't pick the right partner if their lives depended on it.

Judging from some of the epic fails I've seen in terms of choices and outcomes, neither can many men. Armenian men really need to stop trying to find their mothers' clones, and need to stop trying to please their mothers with the women they decide to marry. The worst mistake a man can do is to not be completely separate from the family before getting married.

[Flamenkita]

Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

Also, the advice I give my women friends who are in their late 30's is to not allow their biological clock to dictate when and with whom they marry. It is entirely possible to have a child without getting married, and removing the biological vulnerability from the equation altogether. A man who cannot separate a woman's desire to be a mother from her desire to have a life partner is not worth marrying anyway, IMO. And any man who doesn't love a woman enough to accept and embrace her child is not a man who can think for himself.

I know an old Armenian woman who actually disowned her son for marrying a woman who had already been married. I think that is a terrible and cruel thing to do, but at the end of the day, she is the one who is deprived of her son and his children. And this son's wife happens to be a very kind, caring, energetic person who would gladly care for her husband's mother in her old age. But because of stupid traditions and customs, she is spending her old age bitter and lonely. Why? because she cannot accept that her son married a woman who wasn't a virgin.

[Flamenkita]

Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

Gee, I dunno. I know of several guys who supposedly married the "right" women, chaste, subservient, deferential, family-oriented... Until something went wrong. Then, many years later, they go looking for the one they rejected because she was strong-willed, independent, sexually savvy, only to find she is happily married to a doting husband, is totally dedicated to her children and home, and, because she is capable of earning should her husband be unable to, for whatever reason, her central focus isn't his material offerings.

I married at the age of 36 after having lived a full, free life. I have no regrets and nothing to be ashamed of. And, yes, I did manage to do it all.

[Eddo211]

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Simple arithmetic tells us that a growing number of these women are going to be single into their 30s (which is backed up by recent statistics). As these women get into their 30s, closer to their biological expiration dates, they become desperate and try to find a nice & responsible guy to marry… you know, the same guys they ignored while they were sleeping around in their 20s.

lol so true especially the Armenian girls, guess I am a statistic.....sorry babe, you had your chance.

Some women couldn't pick the right partner if their lives depended on it.

[KanadaHye]

Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

Simple arithmetic tells us that a growing number of these women are going to be single into their 30s (which is backed up by recent statistics). As these women get into their 30s, closer to their biological expiration dates, they become desperate and try to find a nice & responsible guy to marry… you know, the same guys they ignored while they were sleeping around in their 20s.

Then they get angry because these guys who worked hard and sacrificed their time for education/career want a new model Ferrari instead of an old Pinto.

[ArmSurvival]

Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

Characteristics and traits are inherited from parents and more broadly, society. If you left children to be raised by wolves, they would genuinely adopt those characteristics.

Exactly. Most of it comes down to parental education, and most of what a child learns is from watching and imitating their parents, not so much what their parents tell them to do (although this obviously plays a role for certain things). This is why responsible parents are the first line of defense from children doing harmful things and becoming stupid adults. However, its a harsh reality that society at large plays a major role in how we interact with the world and how we perceive ourselves and others, making the job of parents much harder. With advanced communication technologies its become very easy for society at large to grab people’s attention (tv, internet, etc). Lots of people in our generation were raised by the television, leading to less and less people being down to earth.

As far as an individual choosing their path in life, the paths that someone can take are limited by the doors that others open or don't open for them. Essentially, a woman's ability to engage in extramarital affairs is largely due in part by society finding it acceptable.

Its true that women sleeping around has become more justified, including married women sleeping around ('she had no other choice' and other funny excuses come to mind). The problem nowadays in America is that since women have multiple male options, they control the mating game for the first time in recent history. This has lead to a relatively small percentage of men having sex with the majority of women, which means that most of the male population is so thirsty for companionship they will approach women and try to impress them just in the hopes of finding a companion. This has lead to average and below-average women having huge egos because of the amount of male attention they receive (lets not even get into the egos of above-average girls). An average girl is now able to select the “perfect” guy for her, and anyone who doesn’t fit into her rigid mold is either ignored or put into her deck of cards of 50 guys as back-ups. The average guys don’t have this type of power, so its basically her way or the highway. Simple arithmetic tells us that a growing number of these women are going to be single into their 30s (which is backed up by recent statistics). As these women get into their 30s, closer to their biological expiration dates, they become desperate and try to find a nice & responsible guy to marry… you know, the same guys they ignored while they were sleeping around in their 20s.

[Eddo211]

Re: Armenian lesbians/gays

I'm so glad that we have bell the cat here to watch over our well-being but I think he's been taking his duties a little further than necessary with his survey on penis size, or was that purely recreational?

jingle Bells is a true opportunist......however I was wondering the same thing about that.
was it personal experience or just false information passed on to him?
real superior Armenian cat size....I get it but wait, I still feell confused. nevermind, carry on.