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  • #11
    Originally posted by gevo
    I say he is screwed, and statistics show their is a 78% chance he will cheat again.. so, if i were the girl id say screw you, he isnt worth it, not yet.. he has a long way to go to show his worth again, one time i would say "he's human" two? thre? more??/ he is Bullxxxx.. sorry, dont get offended.. i hate people like him, ruin lives, hurt feelings, mess up others' emotions.
    And dont forget gevo he is only 22. Either he will change or he will get worse. You never know. But seeing people like that in life, its a proven fact its gone happen again. FOUR isnt a forgiving number. and very sad too. I feel horrible for that girl. I think what we should do is help her through it.

    P.S..sorry that I am putting him down so much. It just my opinion on it. I cant stand people like that. its just shows how weak they are as humans.
    You can't hold a man down without staying down with him.

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    • #12
      I personally don't understand how you can cheat on someone if you love them. OK, so he cheated on her and he told her about it. That's good. He should explain himself. I hope he also confessed his love for her and told her that he really loves her. Now he needs to leave her alone and give her some space. I can imagine the things that are going through her head.
      I see...

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      • #13
        Here's a little experiment........

        When he does arrive to confess his guilt, she should tell him to trust her and close his eyes and keep it closed no matter what he hears. Then she should pull out and hold an unloaded gun an inch away from his chest and get him to confess everything.

        If she doesn't like the answer to her questions, she should pull the trigger and each time she doesn't like the answer she continue to do so while having him confess and tell her everything.

        At the end of the talk, she should instruct him to open up his eyes and look at what the object was that she was holding and put the gun down.

        She should then tell him that his actions were like the gun she was holding on his chest..... only that the gun (his actions) were more directed towards her chest when he did what he did. Each time he did something that she didn't like, it was like a bullet to her heart. She should also tell him to imagine about how much he would suffer if the gun was actually loaded and she fired each one of those shots into his chest. She should tell him that that's how hurt she would be.

        He would obviously continue to apologize and feel guilty and what not, but a moment will come that he will be convinced that everything is ok with her and that they should get past this together. It's at that moment that she should tell him that she doesn't want him to see her anymore (in other words.... it's over).

        That will mess him up psychologically and will teach him to not cheat again on anyone else.

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        • #14
          This guy did what a classic guy would do. Armenian girls must realize this, they are always being cheated b/c of the obvious fact that they dont sleep with their boyfriends before marriage. So, she should knew that before. If he cheated on her, after they slept than he is a scambag, but if he didnt, I excuse him and kiss him goodbye. Later on if it's ment to be, their paths will cross again, but if not than thats the way it needed to be. This problem Omni jan u cannot solve it, they are the ones who will decide, actually the girl has the final decision. So, no point of being worried.
          U may now move on.

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          • #15
            Originally posted by fIReBuRntInHeLL
            This guy did what a classic guy would do. Armenian girls must realize this, they are always being cheated b/c of the obvious fact that they dont sleep with their boyfriends before marriage. So, she should knew that before. If he cheated on her, after they slept than he is a scambag, but if he didnt, I excuse him and kiss him goodbye. Later on if it's ment to be, their paths will cross again, but if not than thats the way it needed to be. This problem Omni jan u cannot solve it, they are the ones who will decide, actually the girl has the final decision. So, no point of being worried.
            U may now move on.
            hmmm not so sure about that, there's plenty of armenian girls sleeping with their boyfriends; some of them are virgin "wannabes" which is totally pathetic! i mean no one owes any explanation to anyone else! and if small tightly closed and locked minds will judge then let them, people should stop worrying about what others think (be it friends or strangers) and live their lives the way they want to live it...

            here's another golden rule:
            if you're not having a love affair with your "lover" then sooner or later, somebody else will be lighting his/her fire

            this goes along with the other golden rule, actually it's the platinum rule!
            "all's reciprocated in love and romance"---otherwise, look for more enthusiastic fish in the sea

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            • #16
              I love threads with a common cause that unites everyone together!
              Achkerov kute.

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              • #17
                That makes us TWO

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                • #18
                  Come on everyone! Big hug!
                  I see...

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                  • #19
                    Originally posted by fIReBuRntInHeLL
                    This guy did what a classic guy would do. Armenian girls must realize this, they are always being cheated b/c of the obvious fact that they dont sleep with their boyfriends before marriage. So, she should knew that before. If he cheated on her, after they slept than he is a scambag, but if he didnt, I excuse him and kiss him goodbye. Later on if it's ment to be, their paths will cross again, but if not than thats the way it needed to be. This problem Omni jan u cannot solve it, they are the ones who will decide, actually the girl has the final decision. So, no point of being worried.
                    U may now move on.
                    See Fire, before they had sex (which was very recently for the first time) the girl would say I understand if you go and have your fun because you're young. So I guess my friend took advantage of that , but still never told the girl that he ever did do that. After they had sex which was a little before he left for Europe was why he felt he needed to tell her everything and how he regrets it and knows what he wants now.

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                    • #20
                      I think most of the guys are playboys by nature.lets put aside almighty LOVE, or save it for *Scary movie 5*. Real love never face this kind of sht.l disagree with the fact that guys privileged to have fun because they are yung,or whatever reason is.I wonder if this girl still has respect for him. How can u love someone if there is no respect??? RESPECT is the fundament of any kind of relationships.He made a mistake?? same misatake for 4 times. Thank God he had enough decency to declare his guilt, so the poor girl can decide if she wants to spend the rest of her life with a loser.Wake up girl, guys' lower head is more powerful than his love ,morals ...moment of guilt bah!!! It means nothing...NOTHING!!! I really don't want to assail this guy but sorry i cant see any logical motive why he cheated. ( animal instinct??, lame excuse) I feel sorry for her..she gave all herself out.Thats the real MISTAKE. Another perfect example that guys are not trustworthy,unless they convince opposite.I would spit and move on,no matter what....guys,feelings and emotions come and go I stay... i love ME way too much ..hahah

                      Cheers!!
                      I'm a monstrous mass of vile, foul & corrupted matter.

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