Cheating at a young age

[gevo]

[QUOTE=hyebruin]

here's another golden rule:
if you're not having a love affair with your "lover" then sooner or later, somebody else will be lighting his/her fire

QUOTE]
This alone is one of the ways to think that will lead to the downfall of all relationships. period..... Keep thinking this way, and living by it.. but dont complain about it when it turns around against you.

[gevo]

See Fire, before they had sex (which was very recently for the first time) the girl would say I understand if you go and have your fun because you're young. So I guess my friend took advantage of that , but still never told the girl that he ever did do that. After they had sex which was a little before he left for Europe was why he felt he needed to tell her everything and how he regrets it and knows what he wants now.

AHHHHAHAHAHAHAHA>> I DONT KOW TO LAUGH OR CRY!!!!! SO ILL JUST YELL!!!!>> LMAO!!! PLEASEEEEEE.. man.. this is irritating, that is BULLSHT!!!

[thedebutante]

See Fire, before they had sex (which was very recently for the first time) the girl would say I understand if you go and have your fun because you're young. So I guess my friend took advantage of that , but still never told the girl that he ever did do that. After they had sex which was a little before he left for Europe was why he felt he needed to tell her everything and how he regrets it and knows what he wants now.

K, peeps, you should have given us this bit of info right from the beginning. All I have to say is props to your buddy. This girl obviously does not respect herself and until she does that, she can't respect anyone else. As far as I'm concerned, she has no reason to be mad at your friend. She freakin gave him the green light to screw around! And if she was just testing him, then it was either a bad test or she has a grading scale in mind and would tell him if he passed in due time.

You know what, screw this mentality. Any Armenian girl who thinks that her boyfriend should randomly hook-up because he's not getting some from her just yet needs to get a life. Bottom line, if he loves you, he'd respect you and wait. And screw the so-called Golden Rules too. If you think that way, then you'd be s l u t t i n g it around like there is no tomorrow. Didn't mean to get carried away, but girls we have to be a bit stronger.

[Anonymouse]

K, peeps, you should have given us this bit of info right from the beginning. All I have to say is props to your buddy. This girl obviously does not respect herself and until she does that, she can't respect anyone else. As far as I'm concerned, she has no reason to be mad at your friend. She freakin gave him the green light to screw around! And if she was just testing him, then it was either a bad test or she has a grading scale in mind and would tell him if he passed in due time.

You know what, screw this mentality. Any Armenian girl who thinks that her boyfriend should randomly hook-up because he's not getting some from her just yet needs to get a life. Bottom line, if he loves you, he'd respect you and wait. And screw the so-called Golden Rules too. If you think that way, then you'd be s l u t t i n g it around like there is no tomorrow. Didn't mean to get carried away, but girls we have to be a bit stronger.

That is beautiful. You are my new favorite newbie.

[thedebutante]

That is beautiful. You are my new favorite newbie.

Yaaaaaaaaaaaay!

[XxgoeyxX]

K, peeps, you should have given us this bit of info right from the beginning. All I have to say is props to your buddy. This girl obviously does not respect herself and until she does that, she can't respect anyone else. As far as I'm concerned, she has no reason to be mad at your friend. She freakin gave him the green light to screw around! And if she was just testing him, then it was either a bad test or she has a grading scale in mind and would tell him if he passed in due time.

You know what, screw this mentality. Any Armenian girl who thinks that her boyfriend should randomly hook-up because he's not getting some from her just yet needs to get a life. Bottom line, if he loves you, he'd respect you and wait. And screw the so-called Golden Rules too. If you think that way, then you'd be s l u t t i n g it around like there is no tomorrow. Didn't mean to get carried away, but girls we have to be a bit stronger.

Couldn’t have said it better myself. If she opened the door it is her fault as well. What does it mean to go out and have fun? NO duhhh the guy is going to take advantage of her if he doesn’t have respect and not to mention morals.

And yes girls must be stronger. Cause in reality they can be. They can control their feelings; they can control themselves and have enough respect to not be put in such a position to get used and/or to get the wrong attention. And sometimes they blame men for that but in fact it is their fault such things happen. So now that we know the whole story (I'm guessing). It was her fault just as much as it was his.

[hyebruin]

[QUOTE=gevo]

here's another golden rule:
if you're not having a love affair with your "lover" then sooner or later, somebody else will be lighting his/her fire

QUOTE]
This alone is one of the ways to think that will lead to the downfall of all relationships. period..... Keep thinking this way, and living by it.. but dont complain about it when it turns around against you.

thank you dr. phil, and if you keep thinking the way you do, you will never even find out that she cheated on you

[Genuine_Stud]

K, peeps, you should have given us this bit of info right from the beginning. All I have to say is props to your buddy. This girl obviously does not respect herself and until she does that, she can't respect anyone else. As far as I'm concerned, she has no reason to be mad at your friend. She freakin gave him the green light to screw around! And if she was just testing him, then it was either a bad test or she has a grading scale in mind and would tell him if he passed in due time.

You know what, screw this mentality. Any Armenian girl who thinks that her boyfriend should randomly hook-up because he's not getting some from her just yet needs to get a life. Bottom line, if he loves you, he'd respect you and wait.

Dude.... that's so freaking true.......bravo. I couldn't have said it better myself.

If she was dumb enough to give a "go ahead" to the guy to fool around, I don't care what anyone says.... MOST guys will take advantage of that and go for it. Because, honestly.... what guy doesn't think about sex.

If it was a test.... that was pretty stupid. Screw testing each other... people should just be more straightforward with what they want to avoid confusion and problems.

[Anonymouse]

I do not understand what the problem with this is. This is exactly what I argued in the infernal abortion thread, yet I was ostracized. When a girl is pregnant, it is not "50 - 50", it is entirely her fault for having openned her legs in the first place. That is why women who have abortions that are not rape or incest, the supposed trump card, I am against that. It is simply their prurient interests that led them to that avenue in the first place. Hold out. Don't screw around. Wait till marriage if you must. If you can't, then it is entirely your fault. The reason it is ultimately the girls fault is because they are the last ones that have a say in it, to open their legs or not, to do it or not. If they choose not to engage in carnal desires, a male rapes them, it is the man's fault. But no where can a woman tell me it is "50, 50". That is the stupid crap we have accepted these days. This doesn't mean engage in only one type of behavior, but know the consequences of your actions.

[sSsflamesSs]

I do not understand what the problem with this is. This is exactly what I argued in the infernal abortion thread, yet I was ostracized. When a girl is pregnant, it is not "50 - 50", it is entirely her fault for having openned her legs in the first place. That is why women who have abortions that are not rape or incest, the supposed trump card, I am against that. It is simply their prurient interests that led them to that avenue in the first place. Hold out. Don't screw around. Wait till marriage if you must. If you can't, then it is entirely your fault. The reason it is ultimately the girls fault is because they are the last ones that have a say in it, to open their legs or not, to do it or not. If they choose not to engage in carnal desires, a male rapes them, it is the man's fault. But no where can a woman tell me it is "50, 50". That is the stupid crap we have accepted these days. This doesn't mean engage in only one type of behavior, but know the consequences of your actions.

I'm sorry to say this, but this is a load of crap. If we go by your thinking, then it's entirely the GUY'S fault for sticking his tool in her. He is the "last" one to have a say in it.

Cut the crap, please. It's a two-way street. 50/50