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  • #81
    Originally posted by SagGal
    haha. OMG. Poor Anon. Anileve, the man is obviously very old fashioned and traditional when it comes to the kind of woman and wife he wants. Nothing's wrong with that. Jeeees. lol.
    There is nothing wrong with wanting a certain package. However there is something wrong with making reckless statements about how ambitious and independent women are the force behind broken homes and a fake society which is falling apart. There is something wrong with stating that women should all round up in a tent and complete their purpose which magically came in a booklet of instructions "What's a woman supposed to be like", which by the way is mysteriously available to men only.

    For sheep's sake, if you enjoy having a romantic affair with your blow up cow, then so be it, if it makes both of you happy, but don't set the norm for women as if they were a statue which is carved by some stupid standards.

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    • #82
      Originally posted by anileve
      There is nothing wrong with wanting a certain package. However there is something wrong with making reckless statements about how ambitious and independent women are the force behind broken homes and a fake society which is falling apart. There is something wrong with stating that women should all round up in a tent and complete their purpose which magically came in a booklet of instructions "What's a woman supposed to be like", which by the way is mysteriously available to men only.

      For sheep's sake, if you enjoy having a romantic affair with your blow up cow, then so be it, if it makes both of you happy, but don't set the norm for women as if they were a statue which is carved by some stupid standards.
      Very well said, I agree 100%

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      • #83
        Mr. Anonymouse: You have recently been posting what I said you were before. These statements are not specific to your preferences but are opinions about general gender roles relative to society as a whole. You are being presumptuous by assuming that the system in "your world" would be better for our current society. There is no way for anyone to know that. Chances are that, if roles change, it is a necessary cultural adaptation. You said yourself that it was not conscious decision-making.

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        • #84
          Originally posted by dusken
          Your interventions are just for fun. I did not go overboard; everyone just assumes that everything I post is going overboard. Your intervention was no better. All it did was invert my intention. If you are going to edit something because the content is too suggestive then you need to either delete it or make the language softer while maintaining its point of view.

          Oh crap. Let me guess: I should read the forum rules.
          That's right, I suggest you reread forum rules from time to time. Now can I just mention that every time you get pissy with me, you sound like a pregnant woman craving for pickles which are not available. What concerns my interventions, only in one instance it was for fun, a word that you seem to only associate with S&M toys and spanking, so it's clear why you didn’t really get it. In terms of my editing, if I find it necessary to edit your post due to the risqué contents I will not hesitate to do so, if you don't like it you can kiss my arse. If you wish not to maintain my comments in your posts, change it to your preferred style, and stop whining like a 7 year old girl.

          Got it? Good. Let's move on.

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          • #85
            Sorry. I do not got it. Let us move on.

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            • #86
              Anileve:

              For the record, however, I would like to refer people to the follwing post:

              http://forum.armenianclub.com/showpo...&postcount=336

              This post received no objection from anyone. It was never editted. Why? Because I did not post it. I assure you, that is not the only example but I do not feel like running through everything now.

              Of course, I personally have no objections to the post.

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              • #87
                Dusken thank your being such a dedicated forum police officer and realizing that some posts do slip out without us noticing, just as many coming from you or your twin-brother Arvestaked are still floating around in this forum without any complaints. If you wish we can split forum members between moderators and keep a close watch over them and their posts. I am sure you'll guess under whose supervision you'll fall.

                By all means, if you've noticed any other posts which might be offensive for the general public "which you soooooo seem to care about", please do us a favor and hit that cute little icon the lower left corner of the post and report to us. It'll make everyone extremely happy and you can go back to being a little 7 year old girl instead of a police officer.

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                • #88
                  Originally posted by anileve
                  Dusken thank your being such a dedicated forum police officer and realizing that some posts do slip out without us noticing, just as many coming from you or your twin-brother Arvestaked are still floating around in this forum without any complaints. If you wish we can split forum members between moderators and keep a close watch over them and their posts. I am sure you'll guess under whose supervision you'll fall.

                  By all means, if you've noticed any other posts which might be offensive for the general public "which you soooooo seem to care about", please do us a favor and hit that cute little icon the lower left corner of the post and report to us. It'll make everyone extremely happy and you can go back to being a little 7 year old girl instead of a police officer.
                  How about you leave personal insults out of these discussions. Thanks. This is a forum of six year old girls; if it was not, I would have my old screenname.

                  I do not believe moderators missed that post. But that was a nice cover-up of bias on your behalf.

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                  • #89
                    Originally posted by Anonymouse
                    In my personal opinion, a man is a man that has control and moderation in his life and values and doesn't allow the woman to get to that point where she shall criticize him incessantly, and when that happens you have an inverted relationship. His confidence gives him that masculinity. A man in control is a man sure of himself and knows himself. He is assertive and dominant. I can never marry or have a wife that is domineering or strives for control. I am very black and white old fashioned compared to some of the modern "enlightened" men out there. To me the nature of femininity is maternal. A woman nurtures and gives her husband and children unconditional love. Likewise the essence of a man is paternal direction giver. The sort of "God like figure" that gives purpose and security to his wife and family. But that's just my opinion, I could be wrong.

                    Apparently your confidence which gives you masculinity, is staged by the female's submissiveness. Why? Otherwise you lack it?

                    A challenge is always much more interesting then a fixed game in your favor. It makes you a lousy player, because it doesn't teach you anything, it doesn't push you to excell, it offers nothing new, and it's BORING!

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                    • #90
                      Originally posted by spiral
                      Apparently your confidence which gives you masculinity, is staged by the female's submissiveness. Why? Otherwise you lack it?

                      A challenge is always much more interesting then a fixed game in your favor. It makes you a lousy player, because it doesn't teach you anything, it doesn't push you to excell, it offers nothing new, and it's BORING!
                      Precisely.

                      All I know is that, from my experience, the people that have loathed criticism have been the most insecure ones - no confidence whatsoever.

                      Eh, but opinions are opinions. Let him be.

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