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  • #31
    Please do not tell me how much I love him. You do not know me and it is not right of you to assume so. I am thinking of breaking it off with him because my heart is breaking, ok. I want to marry him. I want to be the mother of his children, for me there is nothing that would make me happier. I am just saddened by his words that he cant marry me. And he has every right to mention tradition to me. It is a part of who he is, it identifies himself as an armenian. If I am to be in his life, then there are traditions to follow.

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    • #32
      No dear....Im telling you the truth. That means he doesnt love you enough. Its beautiful that you want to be his wife...you want to have his kids. That is the greatest thing you can give to someone. One of the most beautiful things that can happen in your life..having children and family. That right there shows how much you do love him. But if he doesnt want that then what....what can you do...im sorry.....

      By the way he might change his mind....

      If it is a part of who he is and if he believes in tradition then he would not date out of race either. So that why he doesnt want to marry an odar....im sorry you have to go through that. But he needs to grow up and know what he wants and doesnt what. If he truely loves you...then alllll will work out for the best.


      By the way...I wanted to add to this...I'm sorry I was mean...I didnt want to come off that way...but I guess I did...My apologizes Sad_eyes
      Last edited by XxgoeyxX; 09-15-2004, 07:57 PM.
      You can't hold a man down without staying down with him.

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      • #33
        Drop him like a bad habbit and move on with your life. When you grow up you'll realize breaking up is not such a big deal.

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        • #34
          Originally posted by patlajan
          Drop him like a bad habbit and move on with your life. When you grow up you'll realize breaking up is not such a big deal.

          you are wise beyond your years! wish i knew that when i was 20

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          • #35
            Originally posted by XxgoeyxX
            No dear....Im telling you the truth. That means he doesnt love you enough. Its beautiful that you want to be his wife...you want to have his kids. That is the greatest thing you can give to someone. One of the most beautiful things that can happen in your life..having children and family. That right there shows how much you do love him. But if he doesnt want that then what....what can you do...im sorry.....

            By the way he might change his mind....

            If it is a part of who he is and if he believes in tradition then he would not date out of race either. So that why he doesnt want to marry an odar....im sorry you have to go through that. But he needs to grow up and know what he wants and doesnt what. If he truely loves you...then alllll will work out for the best.


            By the way...I wanted to add to this...I'm sorry I was mean...I didnt want to come off that way...but I guess I did...My apologizes Sad_eyes
            Its ok. I am sorry for jumping at you. My defenses are up. I do understand what you are saying. And I do appreciate it too. Thank you.

            Astvac qez pahapan.

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            • #36
              Originally posted by patlajan
              Drop him like a bad habbit and move on with your life. When you grow up you'll realize breaking up is not such a big deal.
              It is your opinion, and you are welcome to it. And trust me sweetie, I am grown up enough to know that it is a big deal.

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              • #37
                Originally posted by hyebruin
                you are wise beyond your years! wish i knew that when i was 20

                so you're 30? .

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                • #38
                  Originally posted by fIReBuRntInHeLL
                  so you're 30? .

                  no smarty, but you can think whatever you like, how about 40? ...keep guessing...

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                  • #39
                    Originally posted by fIReBuRntInHeLL
                    so you're 30? .

                    Haha, that's like what I heard on the radio. The girl told the radio station people SO excitedly "I've been listening to you since I was 18!!! " and the radio guys go "So how old are you now?!" She replies "19!!!!!!!! "

                    Oh Lord!
                    The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function. -- F. Scott Fitzgerald

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                    • #40
                      The lack of maturity in this site really bugs me sometimes. I may be younger than some of you yes. And for the record I am 21. However, it appears to me that my maturity level is sky rocketing out of this site compared to a couple of you.

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