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One-way, she said she ‘hates’ movies and you are thinking about a movie? I’d ask her again about the movie thing, if I were you. What if you just came up with a few different ideas and asked her to pick (also ask her if there is anything she would love to do)?
Some ideas (other than restaurants, which are fine, too):
Cooking dinner together (something simple, early on.) I’ve had a great time cooking dinner with someone on a date. Here are some benefits: food is something everyone has in common, the activity breaks tension and gives you something to talk about, etc.
I went on a fun date when we went hiking for the day (he brought a picnic lunch that we ate at top.) If you live somewhere warm, you could suggest that sort of thing. When you are heading up a mountain or trekking through a park, awkward silence doesn’t seem so awkward. You can stop and rest, to talk, and then hike on. The same sort of idea goes with x-country skiing, sledding, going to a water park, renting a canoe, or whatever. Doing something outdoors sounds fun, to me (I don’t know what she likes, though).
Think of something you might not do on your own (and tell her that, too.) Art museum? Mini golf? Pottery class? Go cart racing? (Those are random ideas.) The point here is that you come up with something original (that no date has ever likely suggested.) No matter how the date goes, you’ll probably experience something new.
Those are ideas for planned ‘dates.’ Maybe she doesn't like movies because she would rather spend time with you in a way where she can get to know you better? I wouldn’t want my date to stress out over details like you seem to have been doing, so far.
I sort of found out what restaurants she likes, I'll take her there next time. Maybe a movie. (She said she hates movies).
Some ideas (other than restaurants, which are fine, too):
Cooking dinner together (something simple, early on.) I’ve had a great time cooking dinner with someone on a date. Here are some benefits: food is something everyone has in common, the activity breaks tension and gives you something to talk about, etc.
I went on a fun date when we went hiking for the day (he brought a picnic lunch that we ate at top.) If you live somewhere warm, you could suggest that sort of thing. When you are heading up a mountain or trekking through a park, awkward silence doesn’t seem so awkward. You can stop and rest, to talk, and then hike on. The same sort of idea goes with x-country skiing, sledding, going to a water park, renting a canoe, or whatever. Doing something outdoors sounds fun, to me (I don’t know what she likes, though).
Think of something you might not do on your own (and tell her that, too.) Art museum? Mini golf? Pottery class? Go cart racing? (Those are random ideas.) The point here is that you come up with something original (that no date has ever likely suggested.) No matter how the date goes, you’ll probably experience something new.
Those are ideas for planned ‘dates.’ Maybe she doesn't like movies because she would rather spend time with you in a way where she can get to know you better? I wouldn’t want my date to stress out over details like you seem to have been doing, so far.
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