Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

[LadySilver]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

No I don't mind just some things I prefer not to say anything to

[ace]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

No I don't mind just some things I prefer not to say anything to

alright.

[LadySilver]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

Anything else you want to know?

[ace]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

Anything else you want to know?

lol, no? If i think of somethin though ill holler at u. k?

[LadySilver]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

Alright

[thedebutante]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

oh you guys, haha. i should probably stop posting in this thread since to me the only big deal about sex is the possibility of getting pregnant or getting an STD. hence, a girl who has sex is not considered a xxxx in my book, as long as she respects herself and her body and does it because she feels comfortable and wants to and is ready to take responsibility for whatever she does. it's her business. i know some of you will say that's not respecting her body or whatever, but i strongly disagree. i see a girl having sex as you see a guy having sex. if a guy can have sex and is not disrespecting his body, then a girl isn't as well. think of all the reasons you have to justify a guy "being around the block" and apply it to a girl. again, because i dont attach a strong emotional component to sex, i think that it's just a physical act, not a bigger deal than kissing but with more consequences/activity. whoever is not ready to see sex as just that, they should stay away from "casual" sex because it's the emotional damage that messes people up. for example, i know girls who have sex and put themselves out there not because they want to, but because it makes them feel sexy or needed or whatever. situations like that are horrible and nothing can justify that type of sex. and i agree that girls like that should be avoided. there is a dif between having sex because you want to and having sex because you think it would get you other things (money, affection, whatever). ok, this opens up new grounds...

[ace]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

oh you guys, haha. i should probably stop posting in this thread since to me the only big deal about sex is the possibility of getting pregnant or getting an STD. hence, a girl who has sex is not considered a xxxx in my book, as long as she respects herself and her body and does it because she feels comfortable and wants to and is ready to take responsibility for whatever she does. it's her business. i know some of you will say that's not respecting her body or whatever, but i strongly disagree. i see a girl having sex as you see a guy having sex. if a guy can have sex and is not disrespecting his body, then a girl isn't as well. think of all the reasons you have to justify a guy "being around the block" and apply it to a girl. again, because i dont attach a strong emotional component to sex, i think that it's just a physical act, not a bigger deal than kissing but with more consequences/activity.

That, actually made alot of scense to me...maybe its just the way u worded it...hmm...good job lol.

whoever is not ready to see sex as just that, they should stay away from "casual" sex because it's the emotional damage that messes people up. for example, i know girls who have sex and put themselves out there not because they want to, but because it makes them feel sexy or needed or whatever. situations like that are horrible and nothing can justify that type of sex. and i agree that girls like that should be avoided. there is a dif between having sex because you want to and having sex because you think it would get you other things (money, affection, whatever). ok, this opens up new grounds...

Yah it does. I (who appearently is wrong about everything), think that the girl you described in this last part is the majority. Most women, the ones on TV, the ones in my school, the ones I've come across elsewhere...are in some way shape or form being pressured into sex. Hate to be cliche but, alot of the girls in my school do it "just to fit in," and most of them lose it at 15 with a guy they dont care about - and they usually dont care who they lose it to to begin with...anyway. yah...good post yo. i like that right there.

[thedebutante]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

That, actually made alot of scense to me...maybe its just the way u worded it...hmm...good job lol.




Yah it does. I (who appearently is wrong about everything), think that the girl you described in this last part is the majority. Most women, the ones on TV, the ones in my school, the ones I've come across elsewhere...are in some way shape or form being pressured into sex. Hate to be cliche but, alot of the girls in my school do it "just to fit in," and most of them lose it at 15 with a guy they dont care about - and they usually dont care who they lose it to to begin with...anyway. yah...good post yo. i like that right there.

i'm glad you like it. i think your real problem is those girls, not nonvirgins. your problem is seeing girls, armenian girls to be more specific, who have lost complete respect for themselves and are having sex left and right without thinking about it. could it be because they have been respressed for so long? you know how when you keep candy away from a kid, the kid wants it more. when you dont let someone do something, they want to do it more and when all of a sudden they get the chance, they do it until it...hurts? hahaha. you get the point i hope. like i see these kids in school, who are away from home for the first time ever and all of a sudden have all this freedom. they see alcohol, something they havent been able to drink at home, and they go crazy. freshman yr we had a good number of kids taken into the ER just because they drank so much. same with sex...

[Moldy Cheese]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

i'm glad you like it. i think your real problem is those girls, not nonvirgins. your problem is seeing girls, armenian girls to be more specific, who have lost complete respect for themselves and are having sex left and right without thinking about it. could it be because they have been respressed for so long? you know how when you keep candy away from a kid, the kid wants it more. when you dont let someone do something, they want to do it more and when all of a sudden they get the chance, they do it until it...hurts? hahaha. you get the point i hope. like i see these kids in school, who are away from home for the first time ever and all of a sudden have all this freedom. they see alcohol, something they havent been able to drink at home, and they go crazy. freshman yr we had a good number of kids taken into the ER just because they drank so much. same with sex...

Such wisdom.

[thedebutante]

Re: Should Armenian women stay Pure for marriage?

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