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  • #21
    what was your point anony??? you made it clear that you have more of a traditional view of gender role in parenting, but the modern and progressive view is that we should not caregorize these roles, we should move toward equal work at home and at our occupations...

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    • #22
      There is no such thing as "equality" or "equal work". That is wishful thinking.
      Achkerov kute.

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      • #23
        to people such as yourself yes... but that is not how people want it to be... i dont want to be SUPERWOMAN (go to work, have a career, have kids, raise them which intails staying home when they are babies, running all the errands for them, cleaning, cooking, and being the wonderful wife) I WANT all of them, we all should strive to this,
        BUT, BUT! i cant do that all by myself... we need men and women to be equal, and we are moving toward that...

        but people such as yourself, dont see that... and this is sad... so we as women, are told that we want too much, well maybe if you got off your butt after work or sometimes did something MORE then just go to work and come home... we dont have to want too much, and we wont have to be superwomen...

        grow up... and by the way are you one of those guys who is going to go to Armenia when you get older and get a girl from one of the rural villages so she will be the good wifey for you??? or are you going to be a MAN and be with someone who is at your level of intelligence and who lives in the city???

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        • #24
          Now I'm the evil one? Not only have you missed the point of what I said, but have gone off on a tangent on something I did not even mention.

          You have no idea what "equal" means, because there is nothing "equal" in nature and cannot fathom that someone is exposing the fallacies you abide by for what they are, nonsense.

          As far as me getting a woman, she will most certainly not have your attitude.
          Achkerov kute.

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          • #25
            Infants tend to be smaller than their parents. Never forget that.

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            • #26
              of course she wont have my attitude... you will feel intimidated, and frightened if you get with a woman who is more clever and educated then you...

              and she is RIGHT all the time!

              i did ask you what your point was, however you declined to answer... so i assumed you had no point...

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              • #27
                Originally posted by nunechka
                of course she wont have my attitude... you will feel intimidated, and frightened if you get with a woman who is more clever and educated then you...

                and she is RIGHT all the time!

                i did ask you what your point was, however you declined to answer... so i assumed you had no point...
                Over confidence is not intimidating. Perhaps something to tease and laff about.
                Achkerov kute.

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                • #28
                  I think that it'll be awesome if people would be a bit more tolerant in these forums. I hate how the unpopular opinion is always massively attacked. I mean, it's fine to disagree but don't attack.

                  For those of you who speak of equality, next time you go on a date, pull up his chair and get the door for him will you? Don't get me wrong...

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                  • #29
                    ohh yes i know this one was directed at me... and you know what i have done that i have paid for more then 50% of all the dates i've been on... and if havent paid for them then i have at least paid for half of the evening (movie or dinner)

                    trust me... i dont speak it i live it... and i do "walk the walk"

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                    • #30
                      Originally posted by nunechka
                      ohh yes i know this one was directed at me... and you know what i have done that i have paid for more then 50% of all the dates i've been on... and if havent paid for them then i have at least paid for half of the evening (movie or dinner)

                      trust me... i dont speak it i live it... and i do "walk the walk"
                      Then good for you, you can pay for my college education.
                      Achkerov kute.

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